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Lynnie
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My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:39 AM

Posted in Planning 184

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved? "My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false? Next Question: Finding my wedding vendors has been easy Back to the Beginning: True or False?

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved?

"My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false?


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Next Question: Finding my wedding vendors has been easy

Back to the Beginning: True or False?

184 Comments

  • Amy
    Dedicated August 2020
    Amy ·
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    False. Hes deployed and his internet is garbage so it is on me. I get inputs when I can. If he was here it would be a different story
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  • Lisa
    Savvy March 2020
    Lisa ·
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    False im doing just about everything
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  • Kimberly
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Kimberly ·
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    So true my fiance is very excited
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  • Erica-FutureMrsTacchia
    Dedicated October 2019
    Erica-FutureMrsTacchia ·
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    My fiance is damn near more involved then I am! We'll talk about something we want and say ok we'll look around tomorrow etc and by the time I get home hes already been on marryme or etsy or amazon and bought it. He is seriously the freaking best!
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  • Jalyn
    Dedicated August 2019
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    My husband helped with dj decisions, food decisions, helping us pick and move around decorations and his tux and groomsmen tuxes. He worked full time during planning and I was a college senior with days off so he didn’t even see the venue until a month before via video. His contributions sufficed though! He kind of let my mom, mother in law and i do our thing.
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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
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    False... He's involved with a few things, especially if I ask him to be... but I'm doing most of it.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Totally false. My FH gives his opinion on most things, but isn't as invested in the planning process. Which is totally fine with me!

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  • Christine
    Dedicated October 2020
    Christine ·
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    Mostly true. He has a family friend who is a DJ. I've been bugging him to get in contact with him to ask him if he is available for our wedding. I'm still waiting for him to ask.

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  • K
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kalie ·
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    False, I try to get his input but he knows how much of a planner I am.
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  • Tiffany
    Savvy July 2020
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    I wish and he trys
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  • Michelle
    Super August 2019
    Michelle ·
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    False! I tried to get him involved more but he either forgot or I ended up doing it because he was taking too long. Lol He was happy to contribute when he wanted to and let me do most of it.
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  • Cora
    Savvy November 2019
    Cora ·
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    True! He even likes to call himself a "groomzilla." I have done more of the hands on/diy work, but we have done most of the planning/communicating to vendors together!

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  • Brittany
    Beginner June 2020
    Brittany ·
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    True. We are both slowly starting to plan.
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  • Brooklin
    Savvy September 2020
    Brooklin ·
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    False. False. False. I ask for his opinion all the time, and his reply is just about the same, "It will be a perfect day no matter what because I get to marry you." Awwwhh now what kind of cake do you want?

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  • Phoenix
    Beginner September 2019
    Phoenix ·
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    He is more involved than me 🤣 I’m a super saiyan level procrastinator. Plus, he wanted the big deal wedding so he has to be more involved to get it how he wants. He’s been the groomzilla while
    im here like whatever. 🤣
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  • Anna
    Savvy July 2020
    Anna ·
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    Flase! It's like pulling a tooth trying to get him to help😂
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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    False. It's not like he is avoiding it actively, but I am definitely the active planner!
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  • R
    Savvy August 2021
    Rachele ·
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    False; he’s weighed in on decisions but I’ve mainly made the moves.
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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    False- though I certainly ask his thoughts along the way (even if I veto them later lol)

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  • Katie
    Dedicated May 2020
    Katie ·
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    Definitely false lol, I do most of the planning with advice and help of my mom. He give opinions but mostly it follows with “I don’t know” or “it’s up to you” lol. He cares but I just do most of the planning haha
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