69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
Its bitter-sweet. Im sorry to hear that I know it's hard, I lost my dad when I was 15 and thats a hard part for me. But it still should be happy your marrying your best friend! Im remembering my dad by releasing butterflies and having a pic of him on the table!
I know how hard it is to lose a parent- there are no words to take this pain away and I wish there was something that could make things better but it just takes time. My prayers are with you and your family.
Of course you don't want to think about your wedding now. You have a lot to get through in the next few days -- things that make up the saddest and most confusing times of life...the loss of a loved one (a father, no less).
You have stages to get through, and you have to allow yourself to feel what you're feeling. If wedding planning gets tough, FH picks up the slack. One important thing to remember is that your father will always be with you. You have some of his features, all of his parenting, and his voice will always be in your heart. The last thing he would want is for you to stop your own plans -- take it from a parent. You'll eventually hear him tell you that when the intense grief passes.
While none of us can take away your pain, there is comfort in knowing that others care and are thinking of you. This community offers you our support and sympathy.
He was fine three weeks ago. We then found out he had stage four lung cancer. He was suppose to have 6 months but he just faded super fast. It's hard to see someone you love fade so quickly with no warning.