69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
Oh my goodness.. I am so so sorry for your loss. There are no words that can make that pain disappear, but know there are many people thinking of you
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I'm so sorry for your loss I have been there myself, and we're never ready for this. But he would want you to continue your plans and he'll be there somehow, in ways we can't understand. Take care of you.
@LYM - FH and I are so sorry for your loss - I hope you and your family can take some time to grieve and find comfort knowing so many people are thinking about you and praying for you.
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're not alone. My grandmother passed away last Sunday, 3 weeks before our 3.3.17 wedding date. She's my fathers mother whom he passed away 31 years ago. Our wedding date is his birthday. An old high school friend of mine is getting married in about 6 months and her dad just passed away last week also.
I know how you feel in many different ways. I just want to sit around eat comfort food, cry, and miss my gramma. But I can't. I've always wished I could be like so many other brides and have my daddy walk me down the aisle. But I can't. Time is moving forward and our wedding date is getting closer and closer. My post may have brought you tears and if so I'm sorry, but please know that I want you to see this as me supporting you. Lean on your bridal party, friends, and family. They will understand and if you're as lucky as I am, they will go out of their way to be there for you and help you handle the things that you just want to give up right now. Try to remember that this is the day you've worked so hard for and most likely always dreamed of and no one wants to take that away from you, especially those who loved us the most.