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LoveYouMoore
Super April 2017

My dad died today.

LoveYouMoore, on February 11, 2017 at 11:06 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 241

69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...

69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...

241 Comments

  • NewlyMrsLachney
    Master September 2017
    NewlyMrsLachney ·
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    Oh, LYM I am so sorry to hear this. I went through this just last July with my own Daddy. Our first heroes, first dance partners. Nothing can replace those memories, and the soul aches you'll have. I'm here to tell you it does get easier to deal with the pain, but it's forever with you.

    Grief is tricky. You should treat yourself with a lot of tender care these coming weeks. You'll feel exhausted some days-- it's ok. Just rest. You'll be able to do one or two things and then maybe an overwhelming wave will come over you. Just rest in those times.

    Grief was explained to me that it's like an ocean. If you stand rigid against waves, they'll knock you down and hurt you more. If you swim with them, let them come as they do, it's easier to deal.

    Sending so much love to you from WA.

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  • Megan&Jess
    Devoted March 2017
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    I am so very sorry to hear that. I'm sending all the love and positivity your way during this awful time. You and your family will be in my thoughts. Smiley sad

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  • Miranda
    Super December 2017
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs!

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  • LadyWatson
    Super October 2017
    LadyWatson ·
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    I'm so sorry for your loss! My condolences to you and your family

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  • AnnieL
    VIP June 2017
    AnnieL ·
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    So sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my thoughts. <3

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    Savvy September 2018
    Caity ·
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    Im so sorry for your loss

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  • G
    Dedicated August 2017
    Gelissa ·
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    My condolences. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  • Futuremrswilson
    Master June 2023
    Futuremrswilson ·
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    So sorry for your lost! Lots of love to you and your family in this very difficult time

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  • Ann
    VIP November 2017
    Ann ·
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    Oh no...I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. Prayers for you & your family.

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  • Ellen
    Expert September 2017
    Ellen ·
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    I'm sorry for your loss.

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  • Shy-Bull
    VIP March 2017
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    My deepest sympathy to you and your family

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  • NikNak
    Master September 2018
    NikNak ·
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    That is awful, I am so sorry to hear and I know there is nothing that can be said to bring you comfort... But I'm sending prayers and love your way.

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  • Bianca
    Devoted June 2018
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    I'm am so sorry for your lose. Condolences and prayers for your family at this difficult time

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  • xray12280
    Master June 2017
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    I am so very sorry for your loss

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  • Chica
    VIP October 2017
    Chica ·
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    Woww... Im so sorry is all I can say. I pray God brings you & your family comfort. I hope you cover yourself in his strength & love and that you are still able to get married to your bestfriend. If you know this is what your dad would of wanted, there is no better way to honor him. God must of desperately needed another angel.

    Woww this is a real fear. Be strong love. I wish I could hug you from here.

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  • Kaylee
    Super November 2017
    Kaylee ·
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    I am so very sorry! I know nothing that anyway can say will make you feel better, but just know you have the support of so many people in the WW community! Sending prayers and hugs your way!

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  • BlueHenBride
    Master March 2017
    BlueHenBride ·
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    I am so sorry and will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers!

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  • Future Mrs. Coleman
    VIP September 2017
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    I'm sorry for your loss

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  • Chariece & Sterling
    VIP December 2026
    Chariece & Sterling ·
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    So sorry for your loss prayers sent your way

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  • Must Love Cats
    Master October 2017
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    My heart hurt reading your post. I am so sorry.

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