69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...
Oh, LYM I am so sorry to hear this. I went through this just last July with my own Daddy. Our first heroes, first dance partners. Nothing can replace those memories, and the soul aches you'll have. I'm here to tell you it does get easier to deal with the pain, but it's forever with you.
Grief is tricky. You should treat yourself with a lot of tender care these coming weeks. You'll feel exhausted some days-- it's ok. Just rest. You'll be able to do one or two things and then maybe an overwhelming wave will come over you. Just rest in those times.
Grief was explained to me that it's like an ocean. If you stand rigid against waves, they'll knock you down and hurt you more. If you swim with them, let them come as they do, it's easier to deal.
Woww... Im so sorry is all I can say. I pray God brings you & your family comfort. I hope you cover yourself in his strength & love and that you are still able to get married to your bestfriend. If you know this is what your dad would of wanted, there is no better way to honor him. God must of desperately needed another angel.
Woww this is a real fear. Be strong love. I wish I could hug you from here.
I am so very sorry! I know nothing that anyway can say will make you feel better, but just know you have the support of so many people in the WW community! Sending prayers and hugs your way!