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LoveYouMoore
Super April 2017

My dad died today.

LoveYouMoore, on February 11, 2017 at 11:06 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 241

69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...

69 days until I get married to my bestfriend...but the man who is suppose to walk me down the isle died today....I'm shattered and broken. I look forward to none of this now...

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  • Megan
    Devoted March 2017
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    I am so sorry for your loss. <3 My hugs, love, and prayers to you.

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  • SSJKarigan
    VIP August 2017
    SSJKarigan ·
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    There is nothing that can adequately describe the grief that comes with losing a parent. I lost my mother a few years ago, and it was probably the lowest point in my life. I'm so sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine how difficult it must be in the midst of wedding planning. Be good to yourself - you don't have to pretend to be excited about the upcoming wedding. Take the time you need to grieve. Sending love your way.

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  • Amanda
    Expert May 2017
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    I'm so sorry.

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  • Christinanyc
    Master December 2016
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    Sending my condolences to you and your family.

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  • Chrissy4985
    VIP June 2017
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    Im sorry for your loss. My prayers and condolences are with you and your family

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  • I
    Devoted June 2017
    Irene ·
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and healing to your family at this time!!!

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  • Melanie
    Dedicated April 2017
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    My dad died unexpectedly 6 days after I got engaged. It was so hard. Luckily one of my dads best friends (who also happens to be my matron of honors dad) agreed to take my dads place in walking me down the isle

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  • Rebecca
    Savvy January 2018
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    First, my sincere condolences. I'm so very sorry you are going through this. Reading your post brought tears to my eyes because the similarities to my story are so uncanny. My father passed away in october less than 6wks after being diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer. He also wanted to be cremated and have his ashes spread in the ocean as well. It is extremely difficult to lose him so quickly but what comforts me is that he didn't suffer long and I know he's not in pain anymore. Sending prayers up to the Lord and hugs to you and your family.

    He may not be walking me down the aisle but I know for sure he will be there. I'm thinking of maybe releasing a balloon to honor him and acknowledge his presence at the wedding ceremony

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  • Alexa
    Expert September 2017
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    Sorry for your loss Smiley sad

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  • EAShearman
    Savvy October 2017
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    I am so sorry!! I am going to add you and your family to my prayers!!

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  • Alexia
    Dedicated April 2017
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    I am so so incredibly sorry for your loss. My dad passed 10 years ago and it's hard. You are in my thoughts.

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  • S.ME
    Expert September 2017
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    Loveyoumoore... my dad died almost exactly 3 years ago. Your post was almost identical to my email to my job stating my dad died. Blunt. Lost. A sadness and ultimate shock that i could not begin to fathom or comprehend. I read your post and my heart froze, like it did that day. And then I felt overwhelmingly compelled to message you and promise you that will be okay, but the hurt will never end. Why do I feel compelled? My dad's grave is etched with "I Love You Moore"... a saying in our house because my dad always said this to my mom.. and not more, but MOORE... their married name. You're a stranger and I feel connected and full empathy for you.

    It hurts. Always. But you will smile again, I promise. I'm so very very sorry.

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  • Lenika
    Dedicated November 2021
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    So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.

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    Dedicated September 2019
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    I'm sorry for your loss..my condolences to you and your family.

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  • Kashawn
    Super March 2017
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    My condolences to you and your family.

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  • FutureMrsW
    VIP March 2018
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    I am so so sorry for your loss Smiley sad

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  • Meaghan
    VIP April 2017
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    My deepest condolences to you. Take care of yourself right now because grief can overwhelm. Don't worry about wedding right now- unless it's a therapeutic outlet or escape. You need to focus on the tough work of grief right now. So be kind to yourself. Take each day as it comes.

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  • Danielle
    VIP March 2018
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    I'm so very sorry. I've been thinking of you and praying for your family. Ive been trying to contemplate words to say but no words will make it easier. My sister in laws mother died the day before her and my brothers wedding. I can't imagine what you're going through, nor the pain she was in.

    Please take time to care for yourself. And remember that though he may be gone, you will never be alone.

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  • Stephanie
    Super July 2017
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    Praying for you and your family.

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    Dedicated January 2018
    Chanelle ·
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    I am so sorry for your loss

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