My cousin wants to propose at my wedding

That's a solid NO. I don't understand why people don't think it's rude as hell to even ask!

Yeah that's a no for me lol especially if you aren't close to her.

Funny story. My FBIL's wife wanted FH to propose that way at their wedding. Fortunately, FH knew that I would much prefer to have it be just the two of us when he proposed (I hate being in the spotlight, especially when I haven't mentally prepared for it). FH told me right after I decided not to go up for the bouquet toss (not my favorite tradition anyway) that that had been the plan. But that situation was totally different, because it was the bride's idea to do it. FH never would have asked for her to do that for him. In this case, I totally agree with PPs that if you don't want it, just say no.

Hell no! If someone wants to butt in on our celebration, they better damn well be paying some of the bills. You want to propose? You better get a $3000 (1/3 my budget) check to me a week in advance.

Hard no.

You're not selfish for that....it's nervy of him to even ask.

No no no...he can do it...a different day. Not your day

Hard no on this! This is your and FH's day! They need their own special day.

I can see why he wants to do it - it is a romantic night, she will have weddings on her mind, they will be surrounded by family and he didn't have to pay a dime to create that atmosphere. Hard no. He can create a memorable, romantic proposal all on his own not piggyback off of your plans.

I would definitely say no. You spend alot of money and time planning your one special day.

That's your special day and Call me selfish I would not want someone else stealing my moment

You are absolutely NOT being selfish! You get one day and it's all about your and FH! Your cousin can figure out a different day

If one of my guests asked to do this, I would say no.

That's a hard no.. and you shouldn't feel bad because he was ruder than poop to even ask.

Ugh, this again? Why is this even a thing?

ETA: OP, I didn't direct that to you, it just that more and more people seem to want to do this. You are definitely not being selfish. It's not appropriate to propose (especially so publicly) at someone else's wedding.

Helllllll no. It's not selfish of you at all. It's extremely rude for someone to even consider asking a bride to allow this.

Big NO! It's your day, not anyone else's. I wouldn't want to be proposed to at someone else's wedding. I'd be super embarrassed

Giant NO from me!

No No NO!!! your wedding iis not the time or the place....

Not being selfish at all!! He has so many days to propose not dhring your wedding! She deserves her own day and you do too!