My partner and I don't want a traditional wedding. It's the second time around and we don't want all the family input, don't want anything fancy, don't want gifts. We're thinking about having a surprise wedding.
I came upon a murder mystery party, "Til Death Do We Part" with a wedding theme. His family has done murder mysteries and it's been a big hit.
People have to RSVP and get their characters in advance, so we could have an idea of who was coming and nudge those who don't RSVP in a way we couldn't for a regular party. We'd be the bride and groom, and at the beginning of the party just add in an actual wedding.
This seems like a good way to have the party, entertainment and fun, and be with the people we want while we get married - without all the pressure.
What are the things I should keep in mind when planning? What am I overlooking?
