Life and Family Related; Prayers and good thoughts are welcomed.......

Destiny I we will pray for you and the Harris family. I had to just stop and pray right now! I am glad that your FH has spoke to someome because there is no reason for those nurses to voice there opinion.Your family is under enough stress without them putting there two cents in.Giving out a patients info without the family permission is against the HIPPA law and they can be fined and terminated.I will continue to pray for your family God bless.

Of course.

@Tanza thank you, yeah that was definitely an interesting day with those nurses. I went to visit him yesterday and after being told off and reported(hopefully the in-laws reported them, I'm not too sure yet). They were singing a different tune. We also requested two specific one's to be his nurse when they are on staff because they have been awesome towards him and the family. The one nurse said that she filled a report against the bad nurses for the family. But sadly the only thing that may happen is that they get fired from this hospital and get hired to another hospital only to continue giving bad patient care and having bad bedside manners. @Kaara thank you.

I hate that you and FH are having to go thru this. And I am digsusted that you and your FILs are being treated that way. Prayers are definitely coming your way. I'll also ask FH and FMIL to send prayers that way too! I wish and pray for a nice recovery!

FH came home last night and talked for a little bit, I didn't really say anything I just let him vent. He just kept saying how he feels he is going to go crazy and how much he loves his father. He also had a hard time yesterday because he went to visit his dad and his mother asked if he believed that God was going to heal him. FH of course said yes to her. But when he got home he said that he wasn't sure and wanted to be realistic about things and not get his hopes up too high. I assured him it was ok the way he was feeling, but he felt really bad lying to his mother. I think he just wanted to make her feel better. FH says he thinks his mother is going to go crazy because FFIL took care of all the bills and everything. She didn't really do anything so we're not sure if she can or will handle things. He kept saying he wanted to start over and move away, the only thing I told him was that wouldn't be realistic and he can't act like his father doesn't exist. Also that will make things con

Cont... Worse he he tries to forget and move on. He kept asking me if I would love him no matter what and of course I assured him that I did. And the only thing he said is we will see cause this may be a true test in our relationship. I told FH I have been here this long and I'm not going anywhere. FH is just in a cloud and he probably thinks when he finally does break down that I'm going to leave him. But that's not the case. I also told him that he has to remember he has three other little people that love him and require his love back. He feels he is no to the kids in the mental state that he is in. I just don't know what to do or say, is there a book out there that can help with this situation?

Thank you Jacque that means the world to us. I told FMIL that I have friends sending up prayers as well and her eyes started to tear up.

Prayers and thoughts your way. I'm glad they're reporting the nurses.

I don't know about a book that can help you, I can say that your support will/does mean the world to him. And good for you for reminding him about the three little ones.

Thank you FMS me too, I thought I his sister's were going to slap them! The arguments and attitudes were that bad smh. @Mrs. Leenski yeah I didn't want to sound like a bad person but I also reminded him of the pain he is going through right now and that he doesn't want them to feel the same way. He said he understood, but I guess we will have to see.

I am sending warm thoughts and prayers.

Thank you Carole really appreciated.

Destiny omg your post makes me tear up just thinking about when my mom passed away. I totally understand your FH emotions and you are an awesome woman to be commended for the way you are handling this situation. You are doing the right thing he is blessed to be able to have a strong woman by his side and to feel free to express his feelings because I remember all the people who were there and just let me talk about that stressful time in my life it was so nice to have that.I wish you and your FH and families so much blessings and comfort right now and just know that I am continuing to pray and call out your family in prayer.

@Tanza words definitely can not express how sorry I am that you have lost your mom.***Hugs*** to you. I glad that you were able to have loving friends and family around you to help you through it. It's so sad because my FH only has one best friend that has been there for him, all the other "so called friends" have not. I just want to make sure and let him know that I am here for him and will always be here no matter what. I pray many blessings in you and FH life as well. Hopefully we will have good news soon. Thank you so much for you post Tanza.

Destiny how are you and the family i was just wondering how things are going since it has been awhile.I pray all is well