Let's talk about sex...

Nope we didn't hold out. we didn't have sex on our wedding night though. Too tired. The next morning....yes.

Nope. DH's love language is *definitely* 'physical affection'. If I suggested going a week without sex, he'd probably suggest cancelling the wedding.

Yea. No. Absolutely not lol I need to des tress as much as possible that week

To each their own but it doesn't make sense to me. Having sex makes us more relaxed and helps us feel connected. We had sex that morning right before the guys dropped the girls off at our house to get ready with me and picked DH up to get ready at the hotel. As stressful as the time right before the wedding is I can't imagine doing that to myself! We have gone without sex before due to trips or even just early in our relationship before that was happening but at this point I certainly wouldn't self impose that. Then we had sex again as soon as we got in the door with the dress still on!

Just thought 69 comments was fitting for this thread. Tis all

Got married yesterday and frankly we were too exhausted for it to be some mind blowing special thing. We ate hot pockets...

But in regards to OP I don't anticipate we will do anything night of. We're both used to the too exhausted we'll have fun another day routine. I'm sure we'll be too tired and we'll probably have our kids with us so yeah, no. And we aren't holding out beforehand.

@CrystalQueen2B LMFAO!!!!

We've been together for 7 years and have an amazing sex life...not bad for a couple of 40-something grandparents!

We've already been trying to come up with ways to sneak away for a quickie at the hotel between the ceremony and party...although I doubt that'll work :s

Nope

We are not waiting by choice but we will have some guests staying in our house so we will have little privacy with all the added exhaustion i'm sure will make for holding our a little till the wedding night

He's a virgin and always wanted to wait until his wedding night. So we are and have been patiently waiting.