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Holly"Given"
Devoted October 2016

Let's talk about sex...

Holly"Given", on May 21, 2016 at 1:20 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 72

I seen a while back a thread about having sex on the wedding night whether you thought it would happen or not. But my friend asked me if we were holding out the week of the wedding until that night to make it more special. Anyone doing this?

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Latest activity by Britney, on June 15, 2019 at 6:50 AM
  • CrystalQueenB
    Master August 2016
    CrystalQueenB ·
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    No. FH will be blowing my back out all the days leading up to the wedding! Consistency lol

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  • Holly"Given"
    Devoted October 2016
    Holly"Given" ·
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    Nice answer lmao

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  • SomethingOrange
    Expert September 2017
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    We were potentially talking about waiting a month or more. I'm not sure I could make it that long; a week sounds way more doable!

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  • Holly"Given"
    Devoted October 2016
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    FH thinks it's a great idea. Me not so much. @SomethingOrange a month?!? That's so long.

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  • MrsF2B
    VIP August 2016
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    Nope. I'm gonna be stressing. Sex is my coping mechanism of choice.

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  • UnderTheJuneWillows
    VIP June 2016
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    I've never heard that phrase before. Sounds painful. Lol. FH won't go for that. There will be no holding out.

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  • Holly"Given"
    Devoted October 2016
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    @MrsF2B stress is going to be the death of me that week that's why I'm leaning towards a nope.

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  • GryffinBride
    VIP June 2016
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    Nope!

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  • Amanda
    Super June 2017
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    My FH and I already spend most of our time 2 hours apart... I don't think there is any way that we would wait if we are both in the same city!

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  • Holly"Given"
    Devoted October 2016
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    I never thought of doing this till she brought it up. Just curious to see what others have to say about it.

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  • [anonymous]
    Master October 2017
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    FH and I joke about holding out but honestly I don't think we will. Tbh, I don't understand the idea? Like I'm suddenly going to forget what it's like and be blown away on our wedding night? I don't see how it makes it special. Like CrystalQueen2B, we will remain consistent! Smiley smile

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  • Lbee59
    Super June 2016
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    Crystal Queen LMAO!! I love it.

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  • Mrs hart
    Savvy September 2016
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    Well we have decided to hold out three months before the wedding !!! Hopefully we can make it!

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  • Belle
    Super May 2016
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    We didn't the night before, but we don't always anyway so it wasn't like we held out on purpose. The wedding night sex was pretty great.

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  • DJ
    VIP May 2016
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    We weren't planning too, but the stress got to us and we haven't had the time/space to be intimate.

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  • mlw
    Master December 2016
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    Fi and I have been together 5 years... A year ago we went celibate and gave up sex. By the time we get married it will over a year and a half.

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
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    We aren't waiting we will probably need the stress relief!

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  • MzRosaLu
    Master July 2016
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    Nope. Like others have said, pretty sure we'll be more relaxed and stress-free if we're having sex regularly lol.

    Also, wedding night sex will be special regardless, because it's our wedding night.

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  • StokedToBeASaucier
    Master September 2017
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    Definitely not haha

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  • KDS
    Super July 2016
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    We'll be holding off for a week... But only because we're staying with my parents before the wedding. My childhood bed is squeaky, so likely no sneaking it in.

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