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Holly"Given"
Devoted October 2016

Let's talk about sex...

Holly"Given", on May 21, 2016 at 1:20 AM

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I seen a while back a thread about having sex on the wedding night whether you thought it would happen or not. But my friend asked me if we were holding out the week of the wedding until that night to make it more special. Anyone doing this?

I seen a while back a thread about having sex on the wedding night whether you thought it would happen or not. But my friend asked me if we were holding out the week of the wedding until that night to make it more special. Anyone doing this?

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  • VC
    Master May 2017
    VC ·
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    I don't even know if I will be awake after the reception to want to have sex lol. Probably too tired and no we are not holding anything.

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  • Tasha
    Dedicated May 2022
    Tasha ·
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    TheFurtureMrsWade, after getting married do you all plan to bring sex back into your life?

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  • Sour shoes
    VIP September 2017
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    No plan to hold out. The week before might be crazy busy so if we hold out it will be accidental.

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  • JennV
    Master October 2017
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    Haven't held out this far, why start now?

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  • MrsKristenS
    Master August 2016
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    No freaking way.

    I doubt we will on our wedding night, but the morning after and the honeymoon will be special because duh- We'll be married and on our honeymoon.

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  • MsCle
    Super March 2017
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    Yasssssss for him blowing the back out!!! We don't plan to hold off. I'm hoping to get some the morning of!

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  • Amber Erin
    Master August 2016
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    No way. I literally woke him up at midnight for sex last night because I couldn't sleep HAHAHA.

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  • SomethingOrange
    Expert September 2017
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    @Holly"Given", It is, but we've went even longer when we were LD for a year. Sex was always amazing when we reunited, so that's where the inspiration came from. Maybe from all the pent up frustration?

    Whether or not we make it, we'll see.

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  • EmilyJ
    VIP May 2016
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    I actually didn't have sex for like the 2 weeks before. But not on purpose. It was like the end of the semester

    Plus final wedding planning, we just got busy. Smiley sad.

    But I would never do it on purpose.

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  • .
    Devoted May 2016
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    We wanted to do this, so we've been holding off for the past 7 months. Now just nine days to go and my body is 100% ready

    It was really hard at first, pretty much thought I was gonna lose my mind, but you sort of get used to it after awhile.

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  • Sara
    Master April 2017
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    Likely not. ..unless it happens to coincide with my time of the month

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  • A
    VIP June 2017
    Along10 ·
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    I couldn't do it. We'll go without the night before the wedding but that's about it. Better believe we'll be celebrating the final days of our engagement appropriately Smiley winking

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  • Mrs. Sasswood
    Master October 2016
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    Probably won't happen that week just because of stress, exhaustion, or feeling like there's no time but it sure as hell won't be a conscious pre-meditated decision!

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  • B
    Devoted September 2016
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    I know me, and I'm so scared that I'll be too tired on our wedding night. I gotta keep a 5-Hour Energy Shot near by or something. But I think we'll not do it the week leading up to the wedding, and that way I won't care how tired I am that night!

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  • Uny Bride
    Super June 2016
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    Oh hell no!

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  • FutureMrsSmith
    Expert August 2016
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    We're going to try to hold off the week of... but it may very well kill me. We had sex 3 times yesterday and twice the day before. I don't do waiting very well.

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  • Courtney
    VIP June 2016
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    Probably less than a week haha

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  • Swin.
    Master June 2016
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    We will..but I mean, we've made it this far, we can wait the week before as well.lol

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  • OG Kristen
    Master October 2015
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    We didn't and it didn't make our wedding night any less special.

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  • Samantha
    Devoted July 2021
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    No, in my opinion if you've already had sex before marriage there's no point in holding off a little before the wedding. Consistency lol

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