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Lynnie
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Keep or Cancel: Reception Speeches?

Lynnie, on July 16, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Wedding Reception 203

Reception toasts from your father, maid of honor, and best man can be incredibly moving and bring everyone to happy tears! 😭 That is, when the speeches are done well! On the other hand, they can also be awkward, embarrassing, and totally cringe-worthy when done poorly. What's your vote? Should we...

Reception toasts from your father, maid of honor, and best man can be incredibly moving and bring everyone to happy tears! 😭 That is, when the speeches are done well! On the other hand, they can also be awkward, embarrassing, and totally cringe-worthy when done poorly.

What's your vote? Should we put everyone out of their misery and cancel reception speeches? Or keep this personal and emotional toast tradition?


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203 Comments

  • Taylor
    Beginner October 2019
    Taylor ·
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    Keep. Hands down. It's both moving and entertaining to hear what your special guests have to say on your big day!
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  • Cherall
    Dedicated September 2019
    Cherall ·
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    Keep, though my MOH is doing a video montage as she hates public speaking, and not totally sure our best man should have free reign lol
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  • Kate
    Beginner October 2019
    Kate ·
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    Keep, but we are just doing MOH and Best Man, not father as we are paying for it and the hosts.

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  • Deborah
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Deborah ·
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    I do like putting aside time for speeches. It gives everyone a chance to speak and get to know one another
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  • Melissa
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    Keep. Love them. You never know what you're gonna get.
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  • Cecy Rg
    Dedicated October 2019
    Cecy Rg ·
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    Very neutral about this one, theres a possibility my dad would have a speech like he share some words at my sisters wedding, but nothing plan
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    Master June 2020
    Anna ·
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    Totally up to them, but I hope for "keep"
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  • Amanda
    Savvy October 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Cancel (some). I was hoping to move ours to having them done at the rehearsal dinner but I got Vetoed. My father isnt much of a public speaker so he wont be speaking, itll just be pur MOH and BM. I wanted to move them so people didnt have to be bored at their tables listening to stories and they could just party and enjoy the night.
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  • Cori
    Devoted June 2020
    Cori ·
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    We are fining one family member and one wedding party member each a chance to toast. We only have one person we are concerned and it’s really not that much concern.
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  • Lauren
    Savvy August 2020
    Lauren ·
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    Keep. I think it’s nice hearing what the best man and maid of honor wrote.
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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Not happening, I'm an introvert but when you get to know me I'm weird, I don't need everyone knowing me the way my best friends know me. That and I don't sit well so I would be bored before the first speech ended.
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  • CDickman
    VIP September 2019
    CDickman ·
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    Keep I like the speeches.
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  • S
    Savvy October 2019
    Sarah ·
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    Keep, although I told my matron and maid of honor that if either one didn’t want to make a toast, they didn’t have to. They both want to. To lessen the pressure I did specify it’s a toast, not a speech.
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  • Maddi
    Beginner May 2022
    Maddi ·
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    Undecided. I'm not sure. If I do have them I want them short and sweet. Using a slide show with music. Then a few words at the end that's all.
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  • Bradya
    Dedicated July 2020
    Bradya ·
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    No speeches if you are there then we know you care.

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  • Breanna
    Beginner September 2022
    Breanna ·
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    My sister is going to be my maid of honor and is willing to write a speech and honestly, I think that being embarrassed from a speech a family member makes isn't something to think badly about. If my sister wants to write a speech, then she can make a speech.

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  • Deborah
    Dedicated February 2022
    Deborah ·
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    I want to keep this part.
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  • Leticia
    Dedicated February 2020
    Leticia ·
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    Keep, It should be interesting to hear what others have to say about us, to us and our guests.

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  • Adara
    Devoted October 2019
    Adara ·
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    Only two speeches at the reception.

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  • WinesandWhiskey
    Devoted September 2019
    WinesandWhiskey ·
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    Keep! I love hearing the speeches, both the funny stories and the deep emotional ones. Although I say this not having heard any super cringy toasts, so theres that
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