I am the maid of honor in my high school best friend's wedding this weekend. she's always dreamed about having a perfect wedding so it's no shock that she has had specific wants/requests. She hasn't been appreciative for all the help her bridal party has been. She sends group messages to us bridesmaids with orders such as "make sure you're available all day the day before the wedding to set up the reception hall" and "drive me here, pick me up at this time." she scheduled the reheresal early in the morning but is demanding we return that evening to decorate the reception hall. I'm all for helping decorate the hall but to expect it seems unreasonable. She sent a group text to say We're going to eat pizza after but everyone is paying for their own. I am so offended that after all our help she can't show her appreciation with free pizza. She said it's because her fiancé's family is responsible for the rehearsal dinner so since they won't pay, we have to. Am I being unreasonable?