So my mom has been trying to convince me to get a wedding dress with sleeves since the day I got engaged. She keeps telling me that it's "classy" and "unique unlike all the other girls who have strapless" but I feel like maybe she's telling me to get a dress with sleeves because my arms are fat or something? Right now I'm kind of insecure about my body and would like to lose about 20lbs before the big day. I luckily have a full year before my wedding so I'm fairly confident that I can meet my goal. I just feel like every time she says "get a dress with sleeves" she's really saying "you're fat". I know I'm probably overreacting...