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Just Said Yes October 2018

Is it wrong to want a small wedding ?

Jeanna, on July 26, 2017 at 9:48 PM Posted in Planning 0 21

I don't feel like inviting everyone and their mothers. Is this wrong ? I want small and simple. Not big and flashy

21 Comments

Latest activity by Katy, on July 26, 2017 at 11:24 PM
  • Victoria A
    Expert October 2017
    Victoria A ·
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    Nothing wrong with that stand your ground when relatives put up a stink about not being invited it's your day. You do what's best for you

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  • Rebecca
    Super October 2017
    Rebecca ·
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    Then have something small and intimate! If that is what will make you happy.

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  • MrsThomas2U
    Dedicated September 2017
    MrsThomas2U ·
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    Nothing is wrong with that. I'm getting married and September and if it had not been for the deposits already paid, I would cancel my current plans and change to a small and intimate wedding with just immediate family.

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  • Kiera
    Expert September 2017
    Kiera ·
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    I'm only having about 30-35 people. Imidiate family and a few close friends.

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  • FutureMrs.L
    Master September 2018
    FutureMrs.L ·
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    Nothing wrong at all! We redid our guest list from 70+ to about 20-25. Smiley smile

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  • J. Clo
    Master May 2018
    J. Clo ·
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    Nothing wrong with wanting a small wedding at all. A number of couples have posted their BAM's where the wedding was just the two of them. They were beautiful and intimate.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Jeanna ·
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    What is BAM'S ?

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  • Hbanana1111
    Super September 2017
    Hbanana1111 ·
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    Nothing wrong with that at all!

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  • FutureMrs.L
    Master September 2018
    FutureMrs.L ·
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    Back and Married-BAM

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  • Shana
    Dedicated July 2017
    Shana ·
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    Nothing wrong at all...we kept our list to 40! Just family and closest friends!

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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Jeanna ·
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    Oh okay thank you

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  • Shai
    VIP August 2018
    Shai ·
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    Absolutely nothing wrong with that especially if yall are paying for it yourselves. Im only inviting immediate family and good friends I talk to on the regular. Our wedding party is 60 total 30 for me 30 for him

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  • M
    VIP November 2017
    M ·
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    Nope we are having 22 guests, just close family and a couple friends who are the BP.

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  • stephanie
    Super October 2017
    stephanie ·
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    Just make sure you don't invite people not on the wedding guest list to other parties where they would be expected to spend money on you/give you gifts, and you're all good! Nothing wrong with a small wedding!

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    We love our small weddings. Do what you want to do.

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  • Cuervo
    Super January 2019
    Cuervo ·
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    We'll be having 30 guests join us. You do you.

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  • J
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Jeanna ·
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    I'm starting to see that sometimes smaller weddings are better for some people

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  • AnnaKay
    Super June 2018
    AnnaKay ·
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    Nothing wrong at all. Do what makes you guys happy .

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  • MrsVtoBe
    Devoted January 2018
    MrsVtoBe ·
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    Nothing wrong with having a small wedding at all! It's whatever makes you happy, so long as your guests are hosted properly.

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    Beginner May 2018
    #Isaidyes@Disney ·
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    Nothing wrong with thst. My number is 50....we hope no more then 60. We created a list if friends and family members we talk to regularly....we want an intimate and fun wedding.

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