Invited then uninvited

100% decline. Super rude.... especially the text.

Gross. Both of you should skip and not send a gift.

Wow.

Decline the shit out of that invitation.

Your FH should tell him that he's disrespectful and tacky.

Someone did this to me not terribly long ago, still ticked

B-listing at its finest. My response: "No worries, buddy. We'll pass on this one. But hope to see you and your wife at ours. We will be inviting both of you." And that's if yall still want to invite them.

Yikes!

Deeeeeeecline!

Decline, don't send a gift, still invite them.

Decline, don't send a give, invite just the friend to your wedding next year. Obviously his wife won't be offended,

Yikes. I have a friend who had the same exchange........on facebook.........definitely some bad juju there.

It's tacky. I would still tell my FH to go though. I'd sit on the couch and drink wine in my pajamas. Have my FH send me pictures of all the other tacky shit I'm sure will be happening there

I would be PISSED if my better half went to that wedding after they pulled that bullshit. Nope nope nope.

Eek

Eta: it seems really weird that you got an std pretty much when invites should have gone out. I very much so believe you (or he) was b-listed. They thought they'd have room for the both of you then more rsvps came in and realize they only had room for one.

Yeah that's a no from me. How incredibly rude for him to think you're a "plus one". You're his soon to be wife. I would go with what 5 star said.

Decline. I wouldn't want to go without fh. Whose butt would I drunkly touch than? Pass

I think if it were DF that got it, he'd probably reply with, "Sorry, but MNA and I are a social unit, not a plus one. I'll have to decline, I don't attend social functions like weddings without her, but hopefully we'll see you AND your fiancée at our wedding!"

Actually, no, DF wouldn't be that nice about it. Lol.

I couldn't agree more with PP's. Definitely decline their invite and tell them that you guys are a social unit. BUT that to me changes the whole dynamic of friendship... i know guys are different than girls with their friendships/relationships but i would not invite that tacky disrespectful duo to my wedding... but good for you if you want to be the bigger person.

I definitely wouldn't stoop to his level by uninviting him to your wedding. But I also think that your husband should decline the invite. Maybe that will open up a spot for someone bring their significant other, oops I mean plus 1.