Inexpensive farm/barn venue!

@Matt - We've missed you...

I love matt. That's all.

Sounds like you need to change your expectations then. Also, stop telling people they are being when they aren't. This is a community of people discussing wedding topics. We aren't your wedding planner. Also, you can't tell people to leave a thread or not comment. That's against the community guidelines.

Also Matt is the best.

A & W-That's right. Plans change.

I always wanted to marry JTT and that didn't fucking happen either.

@boozybaker Nice! I'm glad that worked out for you. We didn't have any particular date in mind, just knew we wanted it outside, and in Michigan- that definitely can't be in the winter!!

Beth, a girl can still dream.

#Bonding...lol.

Matt, you are inimitable. Welcome back! You've been missed.

M, I'm pretty sure that he is like, 5 feet tall, I'm 5'8". The fates shall not align...

I'm 5' tall!

Fuck yeah!

My 6'4" husband might not be into it, though.

@OP - I'm actually a pretty nice person! Thing is, though, it's really annoying when so many people go out of their way to actually HELP you (and not give you shitty, poorly thought-out-ideas like Arianna's) and you call them rude and ask them not to post just because it's not exactly what you were hoping to hear. You latched onto the one person who offered really bad advice.

Jessica, you do know that we don't work for wedding wire, right? We also don't work for you. People have taken time to be helpful, with not much gratitude in return.

The tall girl in me wants to hate you for snagging a tall one but, I love ya too much.

Luckily I got a tall guy too.

Thank you all for this most glorious break from work!

So glad I read through this...initially skipped over it because the title seemed harmless enough. Thank you, thirsty Thursday for steering me right.

@Matt You've been missed! You win the day.

Matt FTW!!!

Jessica, did you look at the venue tab on here? I found a few for barns for my area,I wouldn't have know they existed hadn't it been for this website.Cheapest one we found was $3,500,plus they

offered linens and decorations with that.Did you look into winery's around you area.

I had to change my orignal date because the venue wasn't available.No matter they day I still end up marries to my best friend.

Haha Beth it's ok, we look like this (this guy is only 2 inches taller than my husband, and we're the same height.)

It looks... dirty. Like he's my babysitter. It's no ideal.

Use your braaaaaaain. And google.

Thanks for having my back Matt! You are great! And to all you others that were less than helpful, I just found my venue, A BARN venue, for my budget, it's perfect, and if I had stopped looking like you all thought I should and give up my dream I wouldn't have found it. SO I hope that you all have a great life and that at some point you realize that if you don't give up everything happens the way it is supposed to. I'm very sorry for those of you that have spent the day commenting on my post and getting pissed off for no good reason. I hope your outlook on things gets better. And thank you for those of you that defended me and gave me good advice and tried to help me make my dream come true, you're awesome!