It's annoying to hear oh my your spending all that money for a party it could go towards paying off your car, down payment on a house, luxurious honeymoon etc. Just elope and save money, or my favorite when they say when i get married I'm not doing that I rather save money for....
I don't even talk about the details to people. I've declined a few social outing to save money and I got a weekend job for extra money for the wedding and my friends and family think I'm "stopping" my life just for a wedding.
My mom keeps saying I'm spending money on "nonsense". Even my MOH has thrown in some comments. I ignore it for the most part. Has anyone else been through this? or Does anyone have any advice on how I can respond to all the negative?
