I’m overwhelmed and sad ! i legit have no one to talk to anout wedding planning and it seems like Besides my fiancé no one cares

Hey Jada, I am so sorry to hear that you feel alone in this. When are you getting married first of all? I am just wondering. I am getting married December 19th, 2020. I usually talk to my mom or my bridesmaids, well 3 out of my 8. lol If people ask I tell them what I'm working on depending on who it is. My fiance has just gotten to the point to where I can have whatever I want. He thinks I'm crazy and planning too far ahead. Then November 2020 rolls along and he will be frantically running around. I hope you don't decide not to do your wedding though. You should be happy and continue planning for you and your fiance.

Sorry to hear. I totally feel ya though. I always kinda felt like everyone wasn't as enthusiastic or excited as I'd hoped to be. But that's why you have weddingwire we share in the excitement of all things wedding related

View Quoted Comment Hello & that means a lot but literally no one 🥺 really no one even asks which is crazy ! but I’ve also haven’t announced my bridesmaids because like you mentioned about your fiancé saying it’s too early I felt it was too early but ima announce them for my birthday because I’m getting married on my birthday in 2021 , so I’ll announce them April 24, 2020 maybe it’ll get better then . I’ve been engaged 11 months but not a single inquiry from anyone or “ friend “ and at this point I’m like no one is coming .

View Quoted Comment Yes ! I’m going to have to get more active in here ! You ladies are always so encouraging and full of knowledge & I love it ,

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I've been engaged since October of 2017, girl i get it. In the beginning people asked and then after people assumed we had already gotten married. I would wait until your b'day for sure to announce the bridesmaids. I have chosen mine and even asked them but I haven't posted about them because my fiance hasn't chosen his yet. If you ever want to talk, I'm willing to talk lol I am always up for talking about wedding and planning.

Have you found a venue yet?

Colors or theme?

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I wish we could like and agree on comments here.

Nobody's going to be as excited as you. But that's why we're here!!!

View Quoted Comment Lol oh wow ! My middle sister also had a long engagement 😂 I went from being the flower girl to the maid of honor ! It was like 10 years 😂 but maybe I’ll tell them for Christmas ? Or Valentine’s Day ? I don’t wanna do it too early I suck at all this 😂 I’ve gotten a venue in mind and colors bare blush, navy & ivory ! How about yours ?

View Quoted Comment Thank you today was the first day I’ve cried during this process I feel alone and not important .

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Wow that is hilarious. When you feel ready, that's when you should do it. My girls all knew before i ever even asked them. They just waited for their formal "proposal".

My colors are Burgundy, Navy, and rose gold. were getting married in west palm beach, Fl. Its actually an hour north of where we live now but this place is gorgeous. Its all glass and I am able to bring all my own vendors, which helps me keep my costs down as well choose my own people as I have a personal preference for food, DJ, bartender, etc.

I totally understand how you're feeling! I've been engaged for 17 months and am finally just under a year out. I noticed that a lot of people really didn't get too excited until about now. I had the same feeling and even cried to FH about it a couple times because I felt like no one cared, but as you get closer people will get more excited. Its just hard for anyone to get excited when they have so long before the event.

I’m the opposite, no one cares about my degrees but all want to talk about wedding stuff. Am I only valuable with a ring? You can always talk to us about stuff that’s why we’re on here!

My husband, my mom, and sometimes my maid of honor. That was pretty much it, of the people I know in real life... didn’t want to drive everyone insane talking about my wedding all the time lol. That’s what WeddingWire friends are for! You’ve come to the right place for a community of people who will actually be as excited about your wedding as you are 😂

Sorry you’re feeling this way. Use this forum and we will discuss with you. ☺️

Honestly,

The people who I talk to the most are my best friend and MOH and my fiance and mom as well.

I'm sorry that you feel like you don't have anyone to talk to and that people do not seem interested. I will say, the closer you get to your wedding, the more interested people may become. You still have a little while until your wedding day, so that might be the reason why people don't ask you much about it. Once you select your bridesmaids and really begin planning, you will probably have more people asking.

I talked to my mom and fiancee (now wife) the most about wedding planning. I also talked to my bridesmaids and bridesman!

View Quoted Comment Awww don’t feel alone! You have us all to back you up and be and eat if you need one! I love talking about wedding stuff with other brides!! Your colors sound wonderful!!

My mom hears it the most then its my Bridal Party

I chatted mostly with hubby & here on WW!

View Quoted Comment How did you go about a caterer & dj ! I don’t know how to find those 🤣