We're having a destination wedding, so I've sent STD's and the formal invitations. I had an RSVP card to be mailed back by Feb. 1st. I know it's not Feb. 1st yet, but we've only received a handful of them back. Some have told us verbally but there are still a lot of people we haven't heard from one way or the other. We thought that we would send out reminder cards on Feb. 1st. I need to have them ordered but I need help with the wording! I never thought I would be in this situation. I can't believe that people can't stick a self addressed, stamped card in the mail. Group discounts and rooms are only being held until Feb. 28th. Any help with how to word them would be great!!