I feel like I'm losing my mind...

I stopped wedding planning for the holidays. I'll pick it up again after the 1st of the year. Relax, you're fine. Do you have all the basics in place? (venue, officiant, ceremony site, etc)?

Oh yeah. That was all done before August, lol.

Then cut yourself some slack and give it some time. After the 1st of the year, you can kick yourself in the ass. In the meantime, enjoy the holiday and your new home, and FH.

I think as long as all your major stuff is done you are fine. i think it is normal for everyone to start feeling a bit crazy around this time of the year. especially this year seems especially stressful for many people!

That's a normal reaction. You were super swamped, and now you have a little room to breathe because you graduated. There's absolutely nothing wedding related that you won't be able to accomplish in 4 months after the holidays. It's my go-to phrase of the week, but it's really just a ceremony and a party, not cure for cancer :-)

YES. I was just thinking about how overwhelmed I’ve been feeling lately. I keep on thinking to myself… how am I going to handle another quarter of graduate school, a job that I’ve been working full time plus hours for, and planning a wedding & honeymoon by September! It’s been really stressing me out. I think when the Holidays are over I’ll feel better. I think that’s another added stressor that I’m worried about.

I think everything will work out fine for you! You’ll make it work! You’re already ahead of the game! Give yourself a break for the holidays and pick up with wedding stuff after the 1st. It’s completely normal that you are feeling overwhelmed BUT you already have the majority of the wedding stuff figured out so your good : )

Do you have a dress yet? I feel the same as all of you..so overwhelmed. and my hardest part is picking out the things I like. don't know which way to go with anything. colors..dress.. I wish I could afford a wedding planner. good luck

Yep I have my dress and the first fitting is Feb 18th. I found my dress right away!

It must be that time for May brides....we are ALL feeling overwhelmed right now Sounds like everything is pretty well together though already!

I think a lot of us are feeling this way! I know I am. I've been in tears all week! We will all make it through!