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Erika*
Super October 2015

How to tell if a diamond is real or fake? *update*

Erika*, on November 6, 2013 at 5:06 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 95

I had to send my ring back to Kay's because the diamond became loose when I knocked it on a counter and I got it back a week later (over the weekend). Well, when I got it back and ever since I got it back, I swear it's not the same diamond!!! The diamond I was proposed with was soooo clear! On the...

I had to send my ring back to Kay's because the diamond became loose when I knocked it on a counter and I got it back a week later (over the weekend). Well, when I got it back and ever since I got it back, I swear it's not the same diamond!!! The diamond I was proposed with was soooo clear! On the certificate of the diamond it's classified as colorless. And now, it just looks weird! It doesn't shine the way it used to in the light. I want to take it back to check the serial number and take it to a jewelers to check if it's real. I hated that Kay's had to send it out to get serviced and now I'm paranoid that it was switched. I swear it's not the same diamond!! To ease my mind til I can take it in, does anyone know how to tell if a diamond is real? Without the microscope.

ETA: just got out of a jeweler. He showed me my ring under the microscope and my serial numbers are the same!! Thanks God! He explained that the reason for the lighting difference is because they cleaned it to look brand new. He also explained the at home ways to check a diamond like the whole fog thing, the rainbow color stuff(he said not to trust those methods because they'll make you paranoid!!). Mine was picking up other colors that it didn't before (which was a reason I thought it was different) and he said that when it's cleaned like brand new it'll shine differently than when it has been handled. My band did come back with damage to it (which didn't help with me thinking it was different). He showed me how the damage was done. The pliers used to hold the ring to tighten the diamond damaged my band. So I do have to take it in to get that fixed, but I'll pass. I can live with that damage. He told me that it does happen, when rings will get switched, so he told me I can come anytime I need adjustments and he'll help me out for free. Everything they do is in store! Thanks everyone for the support, I was going crazy.

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  • PattyCakes
    Super June 2014
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    Still stalking this for an update. I hope they fix this for her. :/

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  • MrsT
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    Ahh, every time I see this thread at the top I think there's an update Smiley sad

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  • Candy
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    Candy ·
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    Omg?! UPDATE! LOL.

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  • Sarah
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    I hope everything turns out we are very nervous for you. Update the moment you are able. Try to breathe everything will be ok.

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  • The Mrs R
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    I just found this thread. How terrible! Hopefully there's an update soon.

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  • KM
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    Awesome, good to know!

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  • Erika*
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    Erika* ·
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    Oh and the fog thing isn't true! Diamonds do fog up, it goes away fast though. He showed me on diamonds he had there. I wish FH would have bought my ring there, this guys was amazing. He was so helpful and didn't try selling me anything. He was focused on just helping me out he even showed me how to check my diamond is mine, with the naked eye.

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  • M
    Master August 2014
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    Awesome Smiley smile Engagement ring crisis has been avoided... somewhat Smiley winking

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  • MNA
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    Happy to hear it came out so well!! Smiley laugh

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  • The Mrs R
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    I'm so glad you found out they didn't switch out the diamond!! Thank goodness the jeweler was so kind. Phew!!

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  • ChampagneTaste
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    Yay!!!!!!

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  • Sarah
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    I'm so happy to hear that now you will sleep wonderfully tonight. Smiley smile Thank you for letting us now.

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  • Denise
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    Thanks for the update. So happy to hear that everything worked out well for you!!

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  • FutureMrs.C
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    Great news

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  • K
    Just Said Yes October 2014
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    Erika, before you run all over town paying people to identify your stone here is a quick way you can do it yourself. Get a white piece of paper and draw a line in black ink. Put the table of the diamond on the black line. If you can see the black line through the pavilion then most likely the stone is a CZ. Also if you have a loupe and you look through the star facet the pavilion will double if it is moissanite. Because diamonds are single refractive and the synthetic is double refractive. You can also call a diamond wholesaler like www.dpmex.com or one in your area and they will tell you for free.

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