Good friends of ours are hosting our wedding in their very large back yard. We are trying to think of ways to thank them. As we have been both married before we are asking for no gifts but instead that they bring a nice bottle of wine that will be given to our hosts who our building a wine cellar as part of their renovations. I still don’t think that is enough and that doesn’t personally come from us. Any suggestions on how to say thank you.
Edited to add there will be a letter in the invitation to explain our request