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How to make a micro wedding not feel awkward?

Layla, on October 26, 2021 at 6:53 PM Posted in Planning 0 4
We’re having 18 people, immediate family only plus a few cousins. Our venue is a resort where we’re all staying, and the actual wedding is in a ‘great room’ adjacent to a private dining room, so we’ll have the ceremony in the great room (1 hour), followed by a cocktail hour (1 hour), then dinner and cake (1.5 hours). We have the venue for 5 hours, and I’m trying to decide if we should turn the great room into a lounge/dancing area for the remaining 1.5 hours, or what we should do for that time. My fiancé absolutely hates dancing and will not dance to anything more than our first dance and a few more slow dances if we play them. The venue is 3 hours away from our guests (it’s destination weekend wedding) so I feel the need to entertain everyone for the full 5 hours. Plus some are coming from out of state and we want to spend time together.


There is a fun town 20 mins away, and a brewery down the street. Should I try to find a show or some entertainment to go to after the reception dinner?
It will be very cold out so anything outdoors isn’t an option. I’m just trying to avoid awkwardness.

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Latest activity by Pirate & 60s Bride, on October 28, 2021 at 8:37 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    You said your husband hates dancing, but what about about guests? If you think they may dance, then a dance/lounge area sounds great. Also, unless you have a very elaborate ceremony, such as something including a full mass or something, I would except the ceremony to take about 30 minutes instead of a whole hour, with processional and everything.
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  • Layla
    Layla ·
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    I’m planning to start the ceremony at 430pm and do a half hour toast/snack time til 5pm, because people will be coming from out of town and I want them to be able to chat and get comfy with each other before the ceremony starts. So that plus the 30 min ceremony itself would be the hour.


    My guests do love to dance! My concern is that they will pressure my fiancé to dance, and he hates it so much he says he’d rather get teeth pulled. But I’m picturing like dim lights, candles, a small dance floor, and lounge furniture on the other side of the room. I wouldn’t make the music so loud, but loud enough to be fun to dance to. Maybe some Polaroid cameras for guests to take pics, too!
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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    You could totally just do drinks and mingling after dinner! I like the lounge idea!!

    The polaroid cameras would be really fun too!

    I also think the Brewery is a good idea for an after-party if your guests still want to hang out after the end of the reception!

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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    We had a DW with 15 guests. The wedding & dinner were plenty! Our wedding was 4-10 pm but our guests went the bar before our ceremony and they also traveled so they started leaving around 9 pm. Fine by us because we were exhausted.


    We had a violinist for our ceremony, accordionist for cocktail hour, and playlist for dinner. I do wish we kept the accordionist for dinner or another live music act because live music adds a lot. But it was still a loud fun dinner party. A fancy coffee bar with dessert would have been nice too.
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