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Gina
Super December 2015

How much do you typically gift for bridal shower?

Gina, on May 26, 2015 at 7:47 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 50

hey girls, I'm going to a cash-back bridal shower and was wondering how much to give. This is a friend of my fiancées cousin and his family, but I have no relationship/friendship with her and neither does my fiancé. She is having a jack and Jill at a VFW so was just wondering what's appropriate.

Hey girls, I'm going to a cash-back bridal shower and was wondering how much to give. This is a friend of my fiancées cousin and his family, but I have no relationship/friendship with her and neither does my fiancé. She is having a jack and Jill at a VFW so was just wondering what's appropriate.

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  • Emily
    Master May 2014
    Emily ·
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    This chick is entitled, greedy, and rude. Don't indulge that. It's unfortunate that you will suddenly come down with a stomach virus and wont be able to attend this shit show.

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  • FutureMrs.Kasper
    Devoted July 2015
    FutureMrs.Kasper ·
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    Give 20 1$ bills, and some green monopoly money to fill Smiley smile

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  • M
    Master August 2015
    Mrs Cheapskate ·
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    So, your future in laws are good friends with this girls family. That makes your inaws obligated to attend but not you. Why would she even invite you? Because she wants your money, thats why. I would be sick or have to work that day or something, and hide out in your house during the event. I would send an empty card and say, Im sorry but I was ill the day of your shower. I sincerely hope you had fun, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding. Done. Geez, I can easily solve everyones problems but my own, for some reason...lol

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  • purplekitten
    Master October 2015
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    "Greenback shower" sounds racist against aliens.

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  • A
    VIP July 2015
    Alyssa ·
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    I think it was weird that you're even invited lol never heard of a greenback shower

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  • C&S
    VIP June 2015
    C&S ·
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    OMG this is so awful.

    Give her monopoly money Smiley smile

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  • Heidi
    Expert September 2016
    Heidi ·
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    So, what happens at this kind of a shower? Does she open each envelope and announce how much each person gave???

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  • Annie & Javi
    Master October 2015
    Annie & Javi ·
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    In your particular case I wouldn't go and wouldn't gift.

    If I received an invitation like this, even if I was close with the person, I still wouldn't go and gift.

    At a normal bridal shower, where you shower the bride with gifts like you're traditionally supposed to, I typically drop around $50-$75 on a gift.

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  • Emmy
    Master January 2015
    Emmy ·
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    This is the grossest thing I have ever heard. Completely unacceptable.

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  • Jen W
    VIP April 2015
    Jen W ·
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    Http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/to-those-who-never-heard-of-greenback-showers/

    I giggled.

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