How many people are in your wedding party?

Two bridesmaids plus a MOh, 2 groomsmen and a best man. We also have three flower girls (my future nieces... they're like te three musketeers), and a ring bearer. So 9, 11 including us!

My fiance definitely wanted 4 on his side. Maybe 5. But no more.
I had a list of 7.
After thinking about it for a week or two, I settled on 5.
I thought about that for a couple days, and decided that 4 was as many as I could handle.
So we have 4 on each side.

Edit: now that I see the rest of the question. We are having what we call a small wedding, as it's just super close family and friends invited. But we're also at 260. So most people won't call that small.

We have 6 on each side, plus 2 flower girls and 2 ring bearers. We have a guest list of 150.

We picked the number in our party first and then picked our party. We originally planned on having 4 on each side but some friendships were broken and now we're uneven with 4 on my side and 2 on his. My FH doesn't have a lot of close relationships/friendships and I don't want him to feel forced in adding people just to make it look better.

I want it to be something special for him so there's a possibility we just might end up staying uneven. As of right now our guest list is about 100 but we doubt all of them will show so it might round off to about 60 or 70 which we are perfectly fine with.

We have 4 on each side. If I could go back I'd literally only have my sister. I love my friends dearly but don't want the drama and 2 out of the 3 friends have shown this. I am pretty laid back so I think it's unnecessary to gripe about stuff that is beyond my control.

We have 1 MOH, 3 Bridesmaids, 1 BM, 3 groomsmen, then flower girl and ring bearer. It actually worked out great because each of us knew exactly who we wanted to have in our parties right from the start and it just worked out that the numbers were equal because it would've bugged me so much if they weren't equal lol

I have a MOH and he has a BM. His BM is my youngest brother and my MOH is my brother's girlfriend. He wanted his best friend but we don't know if he will be able to attend. I don't have a ton of friends, and no one who I am close enough to ask. We have about 85 people attending. It is way bigger than I wanted but he's getting his dream.

We have 3 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, 2 flower girls and a ring bearer. Our wedding party consists of family and close friends. We invited about 200 people, so kind of of the larger size for a wedding.

I had 4 picked out from the get go and added a 5th. FH decided he only wanted 4 but has two people acting as ushers (really just to walk our mothers in). we never set a number just picked who we wanted and went from there. Our guest count is 110 but we are realistically looking at maybe 80 showing up.

We have 6 bridesmaids, 1 Flower girl, and 7 groomsmen. We sent out 106 invitations. I don't think we will get all 106 back. I picked my wedding party based on the ladies that have been there for me, my really good friends.

We had 5 on each side (3 bridesmaids, 2 bridesmen, 4 groomsmen, and 1 groomswoman), and no flower girl or ring bearer. So 12 altogether including DH and me. I had the 5 I wanted to ask, and DH matched his number to mine (we're a little OCD so while we know they don't have to be even, for us they did). Our wedding was on the smaller side; we invited 180, but only got 80 yeses. It ended up being just perfect though.