How many bridemaids, jr bridemaids and flower girls are you having???

7 bridesmaids, no JR BM, 1 flower girl

Dont feel bad family is important im have 1 maid of honor 6 bridesmaids 1 jr. bridesmaid 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer and every body has a partner about 16 ppl all together. you almost dont realize how many ppl mean so much to you until your doing something like this.

I have 10 BM, 10 Gm's, 2 fg, mini bride, and mini groom....all of the ladies in my wedding are special to me!!! I cut cost by doing real touch calla lily wands for my B'M's !! i post pics...just an idea im case you wanna cut costs.

It is your wedding, you make the calls you want them all up there with you then you have them all up there with you

I have 1 MOH, 3 BMs and 1 flower girl but I wanted bigger but was forced to keep it on the smaller side because of FS desires to only have 4 guys on his side ...

I don't think you are going overboard.

We are having:

1 MOH

3 BMs

3 FGs

1 Best Man

3 GMs

2 RBs

Plus 2 Ushers and 2 Jr Ushers (to pass out programs/bubbles).

I have one MOH, 3 BM, 1 Best Man, and 3 (maybe two) GM. Haven't decided if I want a flower girl or ring barer..

1 MOH

1 BM

1 JR BM

No FG or RB

1 Maid of Honor

6 Bridesmaids

1 Bestman

5 Groomsmen (one couldn't make it)

2 flower girls

2 ring bearers

5BM no Jr BMaid

Ok y'all I have:

1 MOH

1 Matron of Honor

5 bridesmaids

1 ringbearer

3 flower girls ( I may have more, I love little baby girls dressed so cute!)

yea, Ive got alot in my party too...

1 Matron

2 Maids

4 Bridesmaids

1 Jr. Bridesmaid

3 Flower girls

His side:

1 Bestman

6 Groomsmen

1 Jr. Groomsmam

1 Ring bearer

I want to down size but I don't wan tany hurt feelings

I have

1 maid of honor

6 brides maids

2 jr brides maids

and he only has 6 grooms men

I struggled with that too...but the more I thought about it....I want my best friends up there with me...and I wouldn't have it any other way. People have told me that "its too many" but honestly I have a lot of best friends and thats just the way it is Actually I looked at pictures of weddings that had only a few bridesmaids and then wedding pictures with a lot of bridesmaids...and honestly the bigger wedding parties looked like much more fun...especially when you are surrounded with the ones you love. Hope this helps!

The only thing that is the downside is how much more you need to pay for flowers and gifts....and hopefully you choose people who will help you and be easy going and organized. Other then that...do what you want!

I have: 1 MOH, 3 BM, 1 FG (seems pretty small now lol)

We had

1 MOH

5 BMs

1 Jr BM

4 FGs

1 Bestman

5 GMs

1 Ring bearer

2 Hostess

2 MOH

4 BMS

1 JBM

2 FG

1 MOH

3 BM

1 FG

though FH has 1 BM and 4 GM.

no RB

I ended up with

5 BMs

1 MOH

4 GM

1 Best Man

2 FG

2RB

1 MOH

2 BM

0 FG, JBM, etc.

1 Best Man

2 GM

0 RB

FH vetoed male attendants for my side

I don't think having a large (or small!) WP is ghetto. It's whatever you want.

1 MOH

7 BM

4 FG

Thanks everyone i feel much better now....Yes thanks for the calla lilies advice i am definitely looking in to that