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NinjaBride
Super June 2018

How far is too far of a drive for wedding?

NinjaBride, on June 14, 2017 at 8:17 PM

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In your opinion how far are you willing to drive for a wedding? We are looking at a venue that is approximately 45min-1 hour drive for most of the guests. The reason we like it so much instead of somewhere closer is because it is an aviation museum and my fiancé has always had a love for anything to...

In your opinion how far are you willing to drive for a wedding? We are looking at a venue that is approximately 45min-1 hour drive for most of the guests. The reason we like it so much instead of somewhere closer is because it is an aviation museum and my fiancé has always had a love for anything to do with airplanes including his career. I personally have driven much further for weddings without much thought, just wondering your thoughts. Thanks!

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    Like many have said, it's according to how close we are to the couple.

    An hour is nothing; our wedding was 45 minutes from our families' homes. It was actually a quicker trip than going into center city, of the city closest to us, because traffic can be a nightmare.

    I'd also like to add - and don't jump down my throat for this - that the type of guest hosting would be a factor. My family had to fly to two weddings and they had the worst level of guest hosting (quality and quantity of food) that we've ever experienced. We stopped to get something to eat, on the way home. So we spent thousands to travel, gave a generous gift, and had to pay for food after the reception; never again!

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  • Ashley
    Expert August 2017
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    I drive an hour and 30 minutes to work. So, that's nothing, I would drive it. My venue and the ceremony are 15 minutes from each other, and 10 minutes from their hotel both ways.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    Up to an hour is fine for us.

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  • FME
    Master March 2018
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    Ours is 45 min-1 hour for 90% of our local guests (1.5 hours for a handful).

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  • KittyPrawn
    Master June 2017
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    My whole family and my best friends drove over 3 hours since I live in a different state now. I only had one person decline because of the distance.

    We have driven an hour or more for other weddings.

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  • RaeGin
    Master September 2017
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    I agree with PPs. I think 45min-1hr is perfectly acceptable. I drive that far as part of my commute every day, and I've driven that far for weddings before. Our venue is about that distance for some of our guests, fortunately since we live close to Chicago there are tons of tollways/expressways people can take.

    ETA: I just checked, and for our farthest "local" guest it will be 45 minutes. We do have a couple of out of state/down state guests who will be driving several hours.

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  • Jessica
    Savvy August 2018
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    Totally agree with what's been said. I think up to an hour is beyond reasonable. However, more than an hour might be pushing it a bit. Again, completely depends on where you're from! If the majority of your guests are local, an hour is really no big deal. Definitely depends on area though, of course.

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  • Cassie
    Devoted October 2017
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    I think I'd only start to give a side-eye if it was over 1.5 hours away (and this only applies if they're local!)

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  • MrsMcK
    VIP September 2017
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    An hour is totally normal. Have the wedding where you want, if guests want to go, they will make the trip.

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  • Kirstie819
    Super August 2017
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    Mine is a hour away for about half my guests. I also got a hotel block for those who don't wanna drive home after.

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  • Mrs. Britt
    VIP August 2016
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    Depends on relationship and the day of the week the wedding is on. I think an hour is fine.

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  • GettingReady2Rumsey
    Devoted May 2018
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    @Megan the drive between Cleveland and Akron isn't bad at all! Especially considering NE Ohio traffic is pretty minimal. We're getting married in Canton, and a good bit of our "local" guests would be coming from Akron and Cleveland area. The rest would be coming from out of state.

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  • Laura
    Master July 2017
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    That's perfectly reasonable! I always have to hop on a plane to attend weddings so I'd be thrilled with one that close.

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  • Amanda
    Master January 2017
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    That is how far the majority of our guests traveled and some were further south or further east and had to drive even longer than that. We had a few declines and no-shows but most people made it. Someone posted a few days ago that they drove 8 hours for a wedding and another poster drove 6 hours. My parents have driven 4+ hours for a few weddings, even for people not directly related to them.

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  • MrsMitch
    Master August 2017
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    An hour isn't bad. Most people in heavy traffic areas or major cities are going to have about that in travel time anyway.

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  • BoudreauToBe
    Master July 2018
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    That is totally reasonable. Make sure you get a hotel block somewhere close by because there will probably be guests that want to stay over.

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  • Z_Runner
    VIP June 2017
    Z_Runner ·
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    I went to a wedding that was 90 min away. Our wedding will be 1:15-2hr drive for people that are not staying overnight. You are fine! 1hr drive is not a big deal

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  • Miami2NorthernVA
    Master November 2017
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    I think that is fine.

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
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    I live in Houston, so driving less than an hour anywhere would be a dream. My venue is about 45 minutes outside of where I live. It really shouldn't be an issue.

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  • Mrs. Sponge
    Master April 2018
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    I would drive an hour to a wedding, not a big deal to me.

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