Hi everyone!
I need some serious advice and support since I feel like my fiance isn't supporting me and wants to do whatever his parents say. I have found myself with mixed feelings and questioning myself if it's even worth it to spend my life with him. I might sound way too dramatic but do you want a man that supports you and have your back no matter what or a boy that has to do what his family says?
I’m not from here so from my side it will be my family and aunts, cousins and some friends. So now his mom gave him a list with like 10 of her friends plus their children and the fathers friends people that my fiancé don’t see since longggg time ago and realistically he won’t in the future either!! I feel like all this is excitement but also they want to show off I don’t know but I want for my wedding to be comfortable in an environment that I am familiar with. The worst thing is that my fiance doesn’t support me and don’t agree with me. Maybe because he feels obligated with his parents I don’t know but if I let this happen there will be so many more uncomfortable things and family drama coming up in the future. Am I crazy for wanting to put some boundaries or should I let this go? Please tell me what do you think because I don’t want to be selfish but I think it’s a little bit too much and they should respect my feelings as well.
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