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Yesenia
Savvy March 2020
Yesenia, on January 7, 2020 at 12:45 PM

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2 of my bridesmaids backed out on me. One because she has her dad and her medical bills to pay for ( I can’t help paying because I’m on a tight budget still have to get a place to live) and she didn’t count on her dad getting sick when she said yes to being my bridesmaid. Now the other girl who...
2 of my bridesmaids backed out on me. One because she has her dad and her medical bills to pay for ( I can’t help paying because I’m on a tight budget still have to get a place to live) and she didn’t count on her dad getting sick when she said yes to being my bridesmaid. Now the other girl who backed out happens to be one of my closest cousins she simply backed out because she didn’t like the dress I chose. I chose something because duh I have the option too, it’s what I envisioned them to wear, for my wedding. I didn’t want my girls to wear anything too revealing... anyways what I’m asking is should I replace them with 2 other girls?
P.S ( added the text she sent just for fun & the beautiful dress because their is nothing with it) cfb_1344813.jpg
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  • Yesenia
    Savvy March 2020
    Yesenia ·
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    Yes I agree. Thank you so much for the suggestion, and sweet comment!🤩
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  • Yesenia
    Savvy March 2020
    Yesenia ·
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    If I knew there was drama involved I would’ve kept it to less people or none lol!😭 to late now
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    Just Said Yes June 2020
    Chloe ·
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    Still invite your friend with the sick dad to the wedding. The invite alone might be all she can do. Your other friend tho that doesn't like your dress can go away. Its not her decision or her wedding. Its yours. Replace her.

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  • Yesenia
    Savvy March 2020
    Yesenia ·
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    Yes I’m the bride, I don’t think my cousin understands that. But thank you for your input!
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    You're welcome!

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    for the record - its your wedding the bridal party can have an opinion on what they want but its ultimately your choice! its what YOU want. best of luck Smiley heart

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    Beginner June 2020
    Amber ·
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    Thank you! For what it's worth, I think your choice for the bridesmaid dress looks nice.

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    Beginner April 2021
    Erica ·
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    How sad! Sorry girl. I wouldn’t pick girls just cause two backed out but If you have other close friends you can count on then I would ask them, if not that’s fine too. Don’t make them let you feel bad because you picked out a dress of Your vision for your wedding. You only get married once, make sure you get what you want and deserve! Sorry you’re going through this! Hang in there everything will be beautiful! Xoxo
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  • Jacqueline
    Dedicated August 2020
    Jacqueline ·
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    I LOVE this gown!!! Better they told you now than later. I wouldn’t worry of asking others just let it be as is. I am having black n white wedding and told my BM it had to be a long gown and obviously black. Their choice and something they will like and wear again and again. Best of luck!!
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  • Allyson
    Devoted February 2020
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    Omg I cannot believe how PETTY she is being!!! It’s your wedding, it’s not about whether she likes the dress or not because it’s your choice!!! I’m shook
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