guests that come with no gift ?

You don't. While it's common to bring a gift, its not required.

"Hey, loser. Where's my stuff?"

You do nothing. There's no way to address this without being rude. And for the record, I think it's shitty not to show up without at least a card and a nice message. But they're not required, and calling them out would be petty.

Drop it. A wedding invitation should never be an invoice or demand a gift. Be like Elsa and let it go.

You don't. No one is required to bring a gift to a wedding. Also, keep in mind that many people send gifts after the wedding.

The best gift is our friends and family being there on the big day.

Plus, they may have financial reasons outside of the wedding to not have given a gift. I wouldn't say anymore than what has already been said.

A gift is no longer a gift once it's required.

You don't, gifts are not required. I can't believe that you are having problems with this nonissue.Have you ever seen a wedding guest greeted with, "Hello, your seats are over there and where's the gift for the B&G?"

I clearly have the unpopular opinion here, but I think it's pretty ridiculous to say gifts aren't required at a wedding, even if that's what the "etiquette books" say. YES they are! It is a wedding; you bring a gift. Even if all you can afford is a card, you bring that. Everyone can afford a $2.99 card and if you can't then get a sheet of paper, write your well wishes on there and fold it into an envelope.

It truly baffles me that anyone would show up empty handed.

That being said, as others have said, it wouldn't be appropriate to address it. You just move on. There's really nothing you can do about the foolishness of others.

I would not mention it to them. You may come out looking rude.

Let it go

I'm trying to get over the fact that you said it was already slightly addressed, so what do you plan to do? Badger people over a gift? Let it go

@gymrat lol. You're funnny. Of course not. I understand people have varying financial situations. I did say that people can bring a card if they can't afford a gift. Everyone says they can't imagine showing up to a wedding without a gift and they wouldn't dare not bring a gift to a wedding. The reason why people are probably saying this is because it is completely improper to show up empty handed at someone's wedding. The least you can do is bring a card.

You don't. Gifts are not required if you go to a wedding.

Gifts are a bonus, not a requirement.

I know everyone has it covered but it bares repeating. You should not address this.

They have a year to send a gift. You don't say anything.

Are you really keeping tabs on who did and didn't give your child wedding gifts? Stop.

If either of my parents confronted my guests (whether they were their friends or not) about me not getting a gift I would be mortified and so angry at my parents.

Wow, Please don't embarass your son and his wife by making this an issue... No one is entitled to a gift.

Ugh. Sadly there's really no way to address this, but I would definitely lose respect for that family. If someone is spending hundreds of dollars to host you at an event and you can't even be bothered to do so much as buy a card, you lack class and are a crappy friend. End of story.