My bridal shower was yesterday during which my grandma ate and then left shortly after. I went over to her house to pick up a gift from a cousin that she had and sat to visit during which she told me she didnt want to go to the party she wanted to finish cleaning and how she was so concerned about my cousin. I talked to her about the seating of the mothers included grandparents so I wanted her and my grandpa Bob to walk down the aisle and be part of that important part of the ceremony. Grandpa Bob was for it but she said she wasn't sure she would be able to walk it (no major issues) and he replied he would push her wheel chair down then. I asked what days she would be interested in going dress shopping and she said she wasn't going. Then I asked if Grandpa Bob had a tux since I had a rental set up he said no I explained the cost and she said absolutely not that a dress shirt and pants would be enough. It's a formal wedding and i wanted the family to match for pics but I didnt push it with her last night. I even told her about rehearsal dinner which is being catered at a local restaurant cheaply and she was upset about it even with it not coming out of her pocket. Its seems as though she disapproves of my wedding and for her to say she doesnt want to come hurts. Her family is already not going all my cousins and aunts and uncles declined. Idk what to do.
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