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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Garter Toss - Do or Ditch?

Lynnie, on February 4, 2020 at 11:05 AM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 98

Are you going to toss the garter at your wedding reception or did this tradition not make the cut?


Are you doing or ditching the garter toss?


Garter Toss - Do or Ditch? 1

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98 Comments

Latest activity by Emilia, on July 13, 2021 at 1:00 PM
  • Alisa
    Devoted October 2021
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    Yes we are doing a garter toss. Just need to fgiure out the perfect song for it. Any suggestions??
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  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
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    Ditch. Most of the guests are my family anyway and it’s just weird.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    Cringe. Pass.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    We did this but in hindsight we probably could have ditched it
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  • Shelby
    Expert November 2020
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    Ditching it. I am not a fan of it, when I see it happening at other weddings it makes me feel weird lol.
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
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    We ditched it. Neither of us are a fan so it was one of the first traditions to go.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
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    Ditch. This literally makes me uncomfortable thinking of my FH removing a garter in front of friends, family and geez co-workers! Plus we don't have many single male friends.

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    We ditched this.

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  • Vannesa
    Expert October 2021
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    We haven't decided. But we probably will do it.

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  • Julie
    VIP February 2020
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    Ick. No thanks. Besides, we can't toss what we don't have
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  • Rae
    Savvy June 2021
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    Ditch. Ick. How is this a tradition? I don't need my dad and his great aunt to see this weird sexual ritual.

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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    Do. We r excited for this lol
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  • K
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    Ditching. So awkward and uncomfortable.

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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
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    Ditch. Don't want FH go under my dress in front of so many people including his grandparents.

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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
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    Definitely not. I'm not into the idea of my husband crawling up my dress in front of 200+ people.

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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
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    Ditching. Though I think I will wear one as a surprise for the wedding night. Smiley winking

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  • Ashley
    Super October 2020
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    Ditching. I think it is awkward

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  • Marlena
    Expert June 2020
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    Ditching. Just like with the bouquet toss it seems pointless when most of the guest are already married or in a relationship. Plus I don't feel comfortable with it.

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  • Meghan
    Savvy June 2022
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    Definitely ditching!

    So cringe-worthy whenever I witnessed it at other weddings.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    We are doing it, but everyone I know does, so our crowd isn't made uncomfortable by it.


    We are not doing that super cringey thing where the two people who catch the bouquet and garter reput the garter on the bouquet person. That is creepy to me and we are not doing that!

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