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Game: You or your fianc茅(e)??

Lynnie, on May 16, 2018 at 2:52 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 323
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Time to spill about your relationship and planning habits!! 馃檴

Click through to each linked discussion and tell us who each question describes best - you or your fianc茅(e)? (It's like the WeddingWire Community version of the newlywed game or shoe game!)


Ready to answer?? Here's your first question...

Who made the fist move? 馃槝 Was it you or your fianc茅(e)?


Next Question: Who popped the question?


Latest activity by Elizabeth, on December 20, 2019 at 1:45 AM
  • Pegs
    VIP July 2018
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    He made the first move. I found a Facebook message from him one day asking me out for sushi and a Cleveland Cavs game and the rest is history...

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  • Stephanie
    Devoted July 2018
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    Well he did on asking me on a date but I did when asking him to be official.
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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
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    He made the first move as well. After 4 dates of just hugs after the night was over, we went to a movie, he pulled up the arm rest to make one big recliner wrapped his arm around me and kissed me. It was sweet.

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  • B
    Devoted January 2019
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    Well we met on tinder so I'm not sure Smiley smile we both swiped
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
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    It was totally me as far as the first physical move lol. We had finished dinner on our first date and we were standing outside the restaurant and I kept getting closer and closer lol. He likes to remind me of this all the time.

    We actually set up our date because of Tinder but worked on the same floor of our office. I could see his desk from mine but we were in 2 separate departments. I'd be over in his area to steal chocolate from his coworker several times a week and apparently he'd always try to talk to me but I'm super shy so I'd grab my chocolate and go. Apparently a few months after he swiped right on tinder I was bored and couldn't sleep and saw his picture and swiped and then almost had a panic attack wondering if he'd think I was weird. Then it popped up that we were a match so I messaged him and was like LOL I know you. Next thing I knew he was asking me to dinner.

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  • Sicura and Kenneth
    Savvy March 2019
    Sicura and Kenneth
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    Me......we were teenagers and I was more advanced in the "going together" process. Lol. As we met up again, I flirted first.
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  • Mrs. Sponge
    Master April 2018
    Mrs. Sponge
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    He did, he sent me a message on POF and we talked for about a week before he asked me out.

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  • J
    Super June 2019
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    He made the first move. He started talking to me first and he asked for my number when I was about to leave.

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  • Xandria
    VIP December 2018
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    We can't agree on who made the first move! FW thinks I asked her out, and I thought she asked me out....

    We'd been texting non-stop, sending each other videos and pictures literally constantly. And we were talking about Studio Ghibli movies, and she was appalled I hadn't seen this specific one, and said she owned it and we should watch it sometime, so I said ok how about this day? and the rest is history....

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  • KarenO
    Master June 2018
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    I did. I went over and started talking to him at a bar. But, he was the one to ask me out on a date, ask for my number, etc.

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  • Happy Hedgie
    VIP September 2018
    Happy Hedgie
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    We'd been messaging back and forth for a while and mutually agreed to meet. He made the move of asking for a real date though. Pretty sure he'd say I stole the first kiss though, he was going in for a hug and I went for a kiss instead. Smiley smile

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  • Sarah
    Master June 2016
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    I sent the first message, but he asked me out for drinks first.
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  • Mrs.W.
    VIP June 2018
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    Definitely him. I was a shy one. lol

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  • Amber
    Beginner May 2022
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    Fiance, he argues it was me though. 馃槒
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  • C
    Just Said Yes March 2019
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    It's was him then it was me it's a long story
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  • Mrs.BowmanToBe
    Dedicated August 2018
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    We started out just as friends. FH gave me his number so that "I could text him when I got home so he knew I was home safe". After that, I made the first physical move and kissed him first.

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  • E
    Beginner September 2020
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    He was the one to make the first move.
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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
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    He showed interest first but I was the first to actually do something
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  • M
    Beginner October 2018
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    He made the first move! He got my number from one of our friends and asked me to go to his sisters wedding! He鈥檚 pretty cute so obviously I said yes!
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  • Inga
    Just Said Yes August 2019
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    It was definitely him.
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