My DJ made us feel so uncomfortable. She would miss phone calls and go a week or more without responding to us. We finally said enough was enough and though we’ll lose our deposit, we told her we weren’t moving forward.
A weight has been lifted! Our deposit was not small so it was very frustrating, but it was so worth it. If one of your vendors or someone is making you feel uncomfortable when it comes to your wedding, TELL THEM. Don’t wait. We waited to tell her because we were giving her the benefit of the doubt, and we are so stupid for doing that. We should have never hired her because she made us feel a little weird - we loved her style so much, though, so we went with it.
Just a word of advice. If you’re unsure, get sure. This is a huge day in your life, so make sure it feels right!