My FH and his ex wife are in litigation regarding some custodial issues. I just found out that her lawyer told FH's lawyer that she will "likely" choose the 4th of July week for her vacation with the children to prevent them from coming to our wedding.
She gets to choose vacation first on odd numbered years. She must have her dates to FH by Jan 15. FH's kids and I have been planning their involvement in the wedding since July. I have booked the venue and officiant and ordered but not sent STD's. Since they split up, FH has always had the kids on the 4th of July. Ex wife hates that holiday.
So...we can change the date to Memorial Day. That is his guaranteed holiday. It would be a long weekend 10 hours away versus a week vacation 10 hours away in July. I checked and the venue is available for May. OR.. do I take a chance and trudge on with the plan. It's a DW so I don't think I can wait til Jan 15 to start planning from scratch.
Advice/suggestions are appreciated.
Thank you