Ex-husband got remarried

Understood

Lol i understand =)

LOL perfect responses ladies...I agree..understood

LOL Thanks. I just had to get it out because FH thought I was weird about it.

I can understand your feelings.

My ex and I divorced in 1992. We remained really close friends. He re-married in 2002. I am still single. When they married, I was a bit envious. I mean, he found the person that I know he will spend his life with. She is far better for him than I was.......I live in a world that most cannot.....celebrity, politics, and me being the center of attention. It is not an easy thing for a partner to deal with. He lived in my world for almost 10 years before it ended....yet he still traveled on the road with me from time to time until he met his current wife.

Now, of course, we are in the throws of planning our daughters wedding. Life is good.

I fully understand your feelings too. I was married for 17 years. He got married to someone he had known for 4 months, 8 months after our divorce was final. Wanna hear the totally funny part? We had a vow renewal back in 2004... they got married at the SAME place by the SAME guy. I saw that and was like OMG!! I still have no idea if she knows it was the same place and the same person that married them. My son says "it's like he's tried to replace you, tried to make her you". I do see some truth to that. But that is theirs to deal with. I've been divorced for 3 years and have been remarried for just over 2 months and I couldn't be happier! (And for the record, my new husband and my wedding was WAY better!! LOL!!)

JNAS - Haha, so you totally understand what I'm talking about then! I think part of the reason I want my wedding to be better was because my ex promised me we'd renew our vows and have a REAL wedding after 10 years and that would've been last year. So, in a way, I feel like I missed out on that wedding I never got to have with him.

Hahaha I Completey understand.

My FH's ex got married last year to a guy with the SAME NAME...same looks.. same hair.. same everything lol talk about wanting it to be (my now FH) lol So I HAD to creep on her FB pics.. She is a girl with a pretty face.. but it stops there... Her wedding ( & her now Hubby) were kinda trashy and i just think she was trying to find a quick replacement..

But anyyyways Im Glad that OUR wedding will be Much nicer & more stable than hers Even tho it sounds mean and catty; it really does make you feel better --- hah.

Ha! I love it!

Completely understandable.

LoL. Aren't we catty brats jk

I think we are always suppose to have a little devil on our shoulder telling us to be mean when it comes to Ex's (or FH Ex's) no matter how nice they are/were

*i promise im not this mean IRL - Lmao*

I think its a normal feeling towards ex's even if you've remarried nice to one another I still dont want an ex to have a nicer wedding than me. And when hubby's ex got married I was so happy it was such a disaster

:] Couldn't agree more.

My ex got remarried 2 weeks after our divorce was final.

I understand completely how you feel but I wasnt happy for him. but not in a jealous kind of way.

And it was in his moms back yard

SO I know mine will be better lol and much better than when we got married.

Wow I just experienced this last week! I was dating this guy for over 2 1/2 years and he always talked about wanting to be with me forever..the whole nine yards and I swore to God he was going to purpose. Well he broke up with me saying "he loved me too much and that scared him." Well wtf. We met up for the last time a few nights before my FH and I met..we went on a very lavish date and then we never talked again. Come to find out he got married last July. I was really really bothered by it and could not for the life of me figure out why. So no I completely understand and you are not strange ;-) It happens. haha

Haha, well at least you feel better :-)

Oh, I know exactly how you feel. I have an ex who used to tell me all the time that we'd get married and he loves me and how he wants to be with me. I kept telling him I'd always love him but I don't want to be with him, I was dating my DH at the time. Then he left for Iraq, knowing I was serious about my DH, while he was gone I got engaged. He came back home, we hung out a few times, he called me one day telling me he was engaged to his ex who he has a kid with. I was like "WTF! You have a kid?" His daughter turned 4 last year. Well I looked at their pictures and her dress looked almost exactly like mine, their BMs dresses didn't match (style or colors), and my wedding was better. They got married December 26. He told me they were engaged a month before that. They wanted to get married so she could get benefits from him. They love each other and all but that was the main reason.

Understood and I believe it's called karma