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Beginner December 2016

Engagement party turned into surprise wedding

Ashley, on December 12, 2016 at 8:39 AM Posted in Do It Yourself 0 87

Hi! I wanted to share our story with anyone stressing over a large guest list. We were planning a wedding with 300+ invitations. It was becoming more expensive than we imagined. 2 days before the engagement party my parents were hosting, we (parents included) decided to scratch the formal production that was our march wedding & surprise all of our guest by getting married on the front porch. In 48 hours we changed the menu, expedited and overnighted my wedding dress, got a DJ, a Photobooth, Flowers, his tux, a wedding cake, hair, makeup & nail appointments, bridesmaid/grooms & parent gifts, violinist and trumpet players for the ceremony, & so much more. We greeted everyone for 30 minutes then changed. Called the wedding party in to each of our rooms telling them the big news while the guest were directed to the front. We shocked the wedding party & guest by giving up the large wedding for a more intimate less expensive ceremony and it was perfect!


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Latest activity by Ashley, on June 6, 2017 at 2:15 PM
  • Emma
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    That looks beautiful!

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  • JessieJackson
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    That's awesome! Congrats!!

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  • Whitta
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    You are like superwoman! That picture is beautiful. Congrats on the marriage! Smiley smile

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  • Melissa
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    Omg!!! I love this! I'm quite envious right now! How beautiful you guys look!!

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  • veeismeee
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    This is badass, and awesome! Congratulations!!

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  • RealLifeBride
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    So fun! And congratulations!

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  • Celia Milton
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    I love it! We've done a bunch of surprise weddings; I think it's great!

    And yours look beautiful!

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  • Alicia
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    Congratulations! Would love to see more pictures. Also that is super impressive how much you planned/accomplished in a short time.

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    Beautiful!

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  • TAP
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    This is awesome! Congrats. more pics!

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  • ENG
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    Ahhhh I always wanted to do something like this but we were too scared that out of state guests who we really wanted there (like bridal party and family) wouldn't be able to budget travel to make the engagement party. So awesome it worked out for you!!! Looks amazing.

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  • melanie
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    Congrats

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  • KYbride
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    I am thoroughly impressed that you pulled that off. Seriously that's so amazing. Congratulations!

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    Alicia you can check out more photos on our wedding website https://www.theknot.com/us/gettinperryed

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    Wow! That looks gorgeous, congratulations!

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    That looks so beautiful

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  • Amanda
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    Love it! Congrats!

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    Wow, that's so awesome! Congrats!

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  • Elizabeth
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    "In 48 hours we changed the menu, expedited and overnighted my wedding dress, got a DJ, a Photobooth, Flowers, his tux, a wedding cake, hair, makeup & nail appointments, bridesmaid/grooms & parent gifts, violinist and trumpet players for the ceremony, & so much more. "

    You look beautiful and congratulations. Not to be a downer, but I just don't see how this is possible, especially inexpensively. How did you get a caterer with such little notice? How did your dress suddenly become available for overnight shipping (unless you bought it online)? How was the DJ not already booked? While all this may have worked for you, I doubt it would work for most without costing an arm and a leg.

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    Beginner December 2016
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    Hi Elizabeth, great questions! We already had a caterer for the party, my mom called and had them increase the menu. I used gigmasters to find a DJ because if you click to request a quote for anyone you can check to accept 5 additional ones so it's easy to find someone who is available. I had already bought my dress from London and Lace in Columbia SC, and they are amazing! They called the company and had 4 seamstresses make and ship it out. I am not claiming it was a cheap wedding but it saved us thousands because there were 1/3 of the people to feed, it was at my parents house so I saved on venue fees as well as rentals for tent,/table/chair/tablecloth/china rentals and I switched to a DJ instead of a band. Overall it was perfect and everything worked out. Smiley smile

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