Please hear me out before jumping to conclusions, and I am very open to all types of responses and opinions. If I wasn't, I wouldn't be coming to you all with this situation. As can be told by the title, I will be having a dry wedding. No questions asked. And let me explain why:
88% (yes I actually calculated) of our rough draft guest list are family and members from mine and FH's church. We come from a VERY conservative, southern baptist church right in the middle of the Bible Belt. There is a small amount of people our age in that group, but most are elderly. They are your stereotypical baptists, which means they disagree with any sort of intake of alcoholic beverages, no matter the amount or the occasion. Mine and FH's families believe the same way. I will say that due to religious beliefs I do not intentionally get drunk (yes there have m been a couple times where I did not know my limit, I will own up) but I do enjoy a glass of wine with my dinner sometimes. (Cont in comments)
