Back story, she is my cousins girlfriend and when I asked her to be a bridesmaid we were on good terms. I overheard her talking about my mom two months ago and I was not happy about it. I pushed that aside and I have been asking her when a good time would be available to try on dresses. Two of my bridesmaids live in Miami, and four live here. Cailin (the one that dropped) is the only bridesmaid that has made no effort in helping out with anything and has not tried on one dress. Now she isn't even getting into Miami until the morning of.
I thanked her for the help she has given me (which isn't any but my thank you was very sincere.), and for listening to me rant and rave. My family thinks I am being a brat, and that I am over reacting and I am not being understanding. I understand that school is a priority but I would never accept to be a bridesmaid if I cannot find time or money for a dress, or even attend the rehearsal. So am I wrong? Am I being a brat?