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Do you keep secrets?

Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:50 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 92

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.? Never, always, or sometimes? Next Question:...

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.?

Never, always, or sometimes?


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92 Comments

  • Fany
    Devoted October 2021
    Fany ·
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    Sometimes I do, especially when it’s really none of his business and it doesn’t impact him in any way.
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  • Gabrielle
    Expert January 2020
    Gabrielle ·
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    Sometimes, but only for special surprise things we’re planning for each other
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  • Katelyn
    Expert October 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    The biggest secret I’ve kept is my wedding dress and even that is turning out to be quiet difficult 😂
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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    If it is a surprise I wont tell him but otherwise he is my best friend and I tell him everything. We have a saying what we talk about between each other stays between just us 2.

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
    8Bitbek ·
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    Secrets, no. Surprises, sometimes.

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  • Paula
    Super September 2019
    Paula ·
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    Never, I can't think of a secret I'm keeping from him
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  • DeJanee
    Savvy July 2020
    DeJanee ·
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    Nope. Everyone knows (friends & family) that when they say “don’t tell anyone” I won’t tell anyone BUT my husbae lol
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  • Grace
    Dedicated December 2019
    Grace ·
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    Never. I tell people upfront that if they tell me a secret, my FH is going to know about it because we have 100% open communication about what we're thinking.
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  • Sharyl
    Dedicated April 2021
    Sharyl ·
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    No, only if it’s a gift/surprise as well.
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  • Rebecca
    Rockstar August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Really only for gifts/special surprises.


    Plenty of stuff we forget to tell each other, given our busy and opposite schedules, but no *secrets*.


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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    Only during Christmas or if I ordered him a book or something that I want to be a surprise

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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    I think it’s healthy to have personal thoughts. I would never keep anything big and important from my FH though
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Sometimes. If a close friend told me something but also not to repeat it ever, I'd respect that. But for the most part, there's really not any secrets per say between FH and I

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Only when it's for a good reason, like a surprise dinner, bday, that's pretty much it. We appreciate honesty in our relationship when it comes to less fun subjects.

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  • Kaylee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kaylee ·
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    Nope lol I pretty much tell him everything. For the most part unless it's something his mother has told me she doesn't want him knowing for some reason or another.
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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    Never. We have no filter with each other.. even about stuff that we already know the other person doesn't care about.

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  • Erin
    Devoted June 2019
    Erin ·
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    No way. I tell him everything any chance I get lol.

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    We tell each other everything, even if it's someone else's secret. I have high aniexty so I need to tell him about things to help me relax.
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  • mrsaj2b
    Master October 2019
    mrsaj2b ·
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    Sometimes to surprise him. Otherwise, no.

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  • Laura
    Expert September 2019
    Laura ·
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    Never, unless it has to do with some sort of surprise

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