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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Do you keep secrets?

Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:50 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 92

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.? Never, always, or sometimes? Next Question:...

Sometimes there's a good reason to keep a secret! Whether you're planning a surprise for your fiancé(e), keeping a trusted friend's secret confidential, or you know that your future spouse is a huge blabbermouth - do you ever keep secrets from your S.O.?

Never, always, or sometimes?


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92 Comments

  • Alyssa
    Dedicated January 2020
    Alyssa ·
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    Not really, just if it's about gifts or something to surprise the other with.

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  • Rachel
    Dedicated May 2020
    Rachel ·
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    Never! We don't really do surprises since neither of us are very good at hiding them. It's a struggle just to keep gifts a secret for us.

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  • Sierra
    Dedicated December 2019
    Sierra ·
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    The only secrets we've ever kept from each other are surprises, christmas/birthday gifts, etc. Even with gifts, we both get too impatient and end up giving it up early xD

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  • Chinda
    Devoted November 2020
    Chinda ·
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    Yes. I’m planning a surprise dance for our wedding just for him 😊 also I planned a surprise birthday party for him at a hall for his quarter of a century. He had no clue.
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  • Lisa
    Dedicated September 2019
    Lisa ·
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    Only if it's a surprise thing. Our biggest strength in our relationship is honesty. Keeping secrets is being dishonest in my opinion

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  • Kristal
    Expert February 2020
    Kristal ·
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    Sometimes? Generally if secrets are kept, its because he literally asked me not to tell him (i.e. THE dress and similar items) or one of us simply forgot it was a thing. There's been a few times we literally forgot the other person didn't know something.

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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated July 2020
    Elizabeth ·
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    For a surprise, yes. Otherwise, no way. If there’s something that needs to be kept that isn’t quite right, then you don’t need to be doing it or need to leave me alone 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
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    Never!!! There’s nothing he doesn’t know!!!
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  • Elaine
    Savvy October 2020
    Elaine ·
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    Sometimes. For surprises only Smiley smile
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  • Rachel
    Devoted October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    No not really, most of the time even if I'm planning a surprise for him I still tell him. I like to think we're very open in our lines of communication.

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  • Samantha
    Rockstar October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    Sometimes. I try to keep gifts, surprises, and friends’ secrets private. I’m not always successful, but I do my best.
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  • Lydia
    Savvy September 2020
    Lydia ·
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    Never. Except right now cuz I have pictures of my dress and stuff but usually no lol

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  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
    SraDeCarrillo ·
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    Sometimes. Only good things though. Once he made me think he was working about 5 hours from where I lived and we were talking on the phone and suddenly he knocked on my front door with new sneakers because I’m a nurse and my shoes were killing my feet.

    The secret I kept from him was that I knew the sex of our son before he did. I even made a (secret gender reveal) cake for dessert after I found out and pretended to not know. I just knew he would be super surprised and I wanted to make it fun.

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  • Lolly
    Dedicated November 2020
    Lolly ·
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    Sometimes! But only when it's a surprise for one of us!

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  • A
    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Always!!! Have to keep those deep dirty little secrets! But he knows all of them!! We dont well, I dont, idk bout him) keep anything from him.
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  • Sara
    Expert September 2020
    Sara ·
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    Sometimes.. as stated above sometimes its just needed but only for little things like presents and surprise parties.

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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar February 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    Sometimes. If it's for a good cause. He's holding one from me right now. Our birthdays are next week. I'll be holding one from him too as soon as I figure out what I'm doing for his lol

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  • Rachel
    Dedicated October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    Sometimes, but it’s only if it’s a surprise for him!
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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
    Andrea ·
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    Haha I’m the same way!! I’m so bad, I’ve been trying to show him pictures of my wedding dress and he refuses to look! 🤣 I just can’t keep a secret, I get way too excited
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  • Kellie
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kellie ·
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    The ONLY secrets we keep are presents for birthdays/holidays.
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