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Lynnie
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Do you "keep score" in the relationship?

Lynnie, on April 2, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 89

There's friendly competition, trading chores, and every once in awhile the justified "I told you so"! But when doing favors for your SO becomes a mental tally of favors you expect in return - you might be falling into the trap of "keeping score" in your relationship! Do you ever "keep score" in your...

There's friendly competition, trading chores, and every once in awhile the justified "I told you so"! But when doing favors for your SO becomes a mental tally of favors you expect in return - you might be falling into the trap of "keeping score" in your relationship!

Do you ever "keep score" in your relationship? Never, always, or sometimes?


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  • K
    Expert February 2020
    Kristina ·
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    Never, I don't think

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  • Amy
    Dedicated August 2020
    Amy ·
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    Never all chores are divided between us and the kids
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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    NEVERRR. We're pretty fair about things in general

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    No we try not to. but it does come up in our disagreements when someone feels the other is "lazy".

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  • Nodyia
    Expert October 2020
    Nodyia ·
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    NO not at all, its always a unit we work as a family, not I did this so its your turn to do that...that's not a relationship to me

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Never. I rarely think about points. I feel treated well in the relatiinship.
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    Sometimes. But only with massages lol
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  • Jr
    Dedicated November 2020
    Jr ·
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    Tit for tat no thats super unhealthy!! If someone is slacking or needs help we just communicate
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  • Squeezy Bean
    Devoted June 2023
    Squeezy Bean ·
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    I never do something for him expecting him to pay me back. I love giving to him, because it's one of the ways I show my love.
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