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8Bitbek
Devoted October 2020

Do not play songs

8Bitbek, on August 1, 2019 at 7:52 PM

Posted in Wedding Reception 118

I saw a thread with playlist must haves, and I'm curious; what songs have you blacklisted from your playlists?
I saw a thread with playlist must haves, and I'm curious; what songs have you blacklisted from your playlists?

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    I've never heard of this dance. I'll have to look it up.
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
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    There's only one song I don't want played is Alan Jackson's "Remember When" it was my Grandmother & Grandfathers song and he passed away a few years ago and she's still sensitive to it so I don't want that played

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    That's understandable and very considerate of you thinking of her feelings.
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  • Mary
    Expert July 2019
    Mary ·
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    We told our DJ absolutely no line dances! Blacklisted Post Malone (with the exception of Sunflower) since the husband doesn't like his music. There were also some songs I added that reminded me of exes.

    We didn't think to mentioned What Does the Fox Say or Baby Shark. Both of which were played because we had guests that put in the request directly to our DJ. 🤨
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    Dedicated November 2019
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    All line dances and anything by R. Kelly, Chris brown, Michael Jackson, Kanye West
    also baby shark

    our do not play list is currently longer than our must play list 😂
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Mostly this is what I did too. We're having a lot of 80s music at the reception, which I love, but there was a whole group of bands/artists from that time that I cannot stand!! So, I said absolutely NOT to:

    Depeche Mode

    Tears for Fears

    Flock of Seagulls

    There are others, of course, but these were my top 3 DO NOT PLAY bands.

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  • Emily
    Savvy October 2019
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    I like just about anything but try to have clean versions of songs as there will be kiddos
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  • Haley
    Expert October 2020
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    I'm asking my DJ not to play anything with too many cuss words, not a lot of rap (some of the older stuff is fun but I don't listen to rap at all). I like all the cheesy dances and stuff personally. I don't do them very well but it always gets people up and dancing.
    There is 1 song that is specifically banned from any function we are hosting: Settle For A Slowdown by Dierks Bentley.

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  • Alicia
    VIP August 2019
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    Same here. We have a couple problematic artists that we refuse to have played.


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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    We're most likely going to do this too, but if there is a song we don't like we're just going to cut it or tell the DJ not to play it. It eliminates the possibility of someone making an unapproved request the night of.

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I don't blame you! All of them are definitely on the problematic side

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    I agree with all of the artist choices for black listing. I wouldn't be surprised if our do not play ends up being longer too.

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  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
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    Walk Like an Egyptian makes my ears bleed.

    No country, no rap - at my first wedding in the early 90's my then hubby's family asked for.....wait for it.....polka music!!! I was like what the heck......polka away!


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    Super October 2020
    Brittany ·
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    Both myself and FH said no to the YMCA and shout dance or whatever that is. We also agreed that there are a few artists we veto on and have it on our blacklist lol

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    Dedicated June 2021
    Fredrecia ·
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    We're doing our playlist but no rap for sure
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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    Yeah I'm right there with you on all of this. Polka music... how strange and random! lol

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  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
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    The other one was "Mony Mony" by Billy Idol as there are some lyrics that are added that are not appropriate for a wedding, lol.

    My ex's family was.....odd. But hey they wanted polka music towards the end and I was like, sure.


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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
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    The electric slide is way classier than the macarena LOL

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  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
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    I blacklisted genres.

    Boyband Pop Music (Backstreet Boys, N’Sync, One Direction)
    Country (besides Johnny Cash)
    Celine Dion
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  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
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    Well I gotta agree with you 100% on the Celine Dion my friend!!!

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