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Anessa
Savvy June 2014

Do MOBs wear corsages?

Anessa, on November 13, 2013 at 5:21 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 1 21

Should a MOB wear a corsage or carry flowers? Is it a faux-pas for them to not have flowers at all? My mom doesn't really want to carry or wear flowers but doesn't want to commit a wedding faux-pas! Help!

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Latest activity by Typewriter, on November 14, 2013 at 10:32 PM
  • DanieGee
    VIP October 2014
    DanieGee ·
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    I guess it's not required but it helps other guests to know who she is.

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  • MissMadeline
    Master June 2014
    MissMadeline ·
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    Usually they wear corsages, but there's no rule that says they have to. My mom hates the idea of a corsage because she doesn't want to poke holes in a nice dress.

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  • TheOGJesse's Girl
    Master March 2014
    TheOGJesse's Girl ·
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    My mom said she doesn't want one. She said people who know us know who my mom is, lol. Very true.

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  • Chloe
    Expert April 2014
    Chloe ·
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    I personally think it looks old fashioned. i won't be doing it. if they're not close enough to me to not know who my mom is then they're not invited to my wedding anyway...

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  • ItsGoodToBeKing
    Master February 2014
    ItsGoodToBeKing ·
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    If you don't know who my mother is, you probably aren't invited!!

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  • Chloe
    Expert April 2014
    Chloe ·
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    Sry double post

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  • Jess08
    Super July 2013
    Jess08 ·
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    We did it, but I think our parents like that kind of stuff. You know to make them feel special, but I don't think it's improper to not have them. Does the MOG want to wear something though?

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  • Donna
    Master June 2014
    Donna ·
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    My Mom does not want one, but FMIL does. My Mom is Ok with us just buying one for FMIL.

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  • MissKelly
    Expert September 2014
    MissKelly ·
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    Moms can also carry a nosegay (small handheld bouquet) if they don't want a corsage. If she really doesn't want to carry around flowers, maybe you can do something like presenting a flower to mothers during the ceremony?

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    If she doesn't want to poke a hole in her dress, what about a flower for her hair or a wrist corsage?

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  • Lisa
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    Lisa ·
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    I'll be making corsages for FMIL and Mom!

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  • Christina
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    Christina ·
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    My mom and MOG will be wearing something like this


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  • Rachel
    Devoted February 2014
    Rachel ·
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    I can't remember if we are doing wrist or pin corsages. Friends of FH will not know our parents without introductions or some physical indication.

    I say get a wrist corsage and she can remove it during the reception.

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  • Allyson
    Master May 2014
    Allyson ·
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    I agree with Jess08. They're not necessary but rather an opportunity to make them feel special. If the MOG wants one but your mom doesn't, make sure your mom will be ok with not having a flower that day and in all of the pictures.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Usually, but if they don't want it, then don't do it!

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  • Rye
    VIP October 2014
    Rye ·
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    My mom is insisiting... also she wants my older sisters to have one as well since they are not in the bridal party

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  • StephGoods
    Super July 2014
    StephGoods ·
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    @Crys that is gorgeous!

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  • About to be Mrs. Nic
    Super September 2014
    About to be Mrs. Nic ·
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    My mom doesn't want to pin anything to her dress either, and said she would forego the corsage because she didn't want me "to spend the money." I told her she is getting flowers and she will like it, since she's a huge part of my wedding and paying for some of it. She will either do a wrist corsage or nosegay

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  • Rebecca
    Super December 2013
    Rebecca ·
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    Neither of my parents want flowers, but FMIL does. Not sure what I'm going to do yet. It's not a faux-pas though.

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  • Anna Banana
    Expert November 2013
    Anna Banana ·
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    Usually they do wear corsages but its not required by any means. If she doesnt want to wear one, then dont get her one. You will be saving urself money.

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