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JAL2015
VIP May 2015

PSA: if you want to vent don't do it on the Internet

JAL2015, on July 2, 2015 at 2:08 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 55

I just had the worst day. A while back I vented about a vendor on here and to be honest I didn't think I was doing anything wrong. I was expressing how I felt about my experience and I wanted others to convince me that I was wrong. Well today I was confronted by that vendor and I was in tears. I'm sure MOST of you know that whatever you put on the Internet can be found but for those of you who don't, just be carful. I should have hid my discussion and maybe this wouldn't have happened. So Even if you think you aren't saying anything bad and just venting people will see it.

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Latest activity by Whitney Wingert, on July 4, 2015 at 1:30 PM
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    Master July 2015
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    Wait, you were upset about a vendor, and they called you and confronted you about it and had you in tears?

    Who works for who, again?

    That's disgusting.

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
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    O_O

    What did she/he say that had you in tears?

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  • Maltese
    Master June 2015
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    Did you mention them by name? They could have found it through a Google search. I know any "venting" threads I created I hid the next day (well after any interest was gone)

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  • Corinne_
    Master September 2016
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    Wow, you should put that in your review because that's a horrible thing to do of your vendor and a reason people shouldn't book them!

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  • OMW
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    I'd also write it on their Facebook wall (business wall, not personal wall).

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  • S
    VIP July 2015
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    Definitely interested in the details of this.

    That is terrible and completely unprofessional though!

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  • Chantel
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    What???

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  • Allison
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    I think the only "venting" thred I have posted was about fh... and I showed it too him! But yes, a good point for all.

    And - Not nice of the vendor! I could see *delicately* approaching the issue. Not making you cry

    WWKatie, (should you happen to see this) is there a way we can see our own posts / threds? I am thinking some brides may wish to hide things post wedding, or even just look for something they posted...

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  • JoyBekee
    Super May 2015
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    Wow, you crying for what?? I'll be bold enough to spit in their face and curse the hell outta 'em. WTF!

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  • Brit12
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    Not cool. Very unprofessional. Why would they even mention it to you? Now they will definitely be getting a bad review and instead of fixing or helping the situation where they messed up, they have made it worse. Not very smart.

    What did they say to have you in tears?

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  • Brigit
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    Not cool, instead of making you cry they should have been asking what they could do to fix the situation...

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  • Corinne_
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    @Allison: If you go to Planning Tools - Watchlist you will see all the threads you started.

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  • Trisha
    Master August 2015
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    Yeah I'm definitely curious as to how they got YOU in tears. That doesn't seem right.

    Allison, go to Planning Tools, and under Community, click on My Watchlist.

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  • Chantel
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    @Allison - you can view all your own threads by looking under Planning Tools. I usually click on "watchlist" that way I see all of mine and all the ones I am watching.

    ETA: I guess I'm slow lol

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  • JAL2015
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    I went there to pick up something and I didn't expect them to have a print out of my thread. I didn't remember saying their name in the thread but I guess I did. I am not going to go into details, my luck they will see this one too lol

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    Devoted October 2016
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    If a vendor made you have to vent about them, they were obviously doing something wrong. How disgusting of them to confront you about it. I hope you add this to your review on this company.

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    I think the internet is actually a great place to complain about a vendor because then it'll help others looking into the same vendor!

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  • DMN
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    Or venting on WW in general is frowned upon. lol but how unprofessional of them! can you fire them and fine someone else?

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  • J plus C
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    You are WAY nicer than I am, because I damn sure will not be disrespected by anybody...let alone someone I pay money to. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

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  • Brigit
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    I hope you are done having to deal with them...

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