I'M CHOOSING TO THINK POSITIVELY

And I'm having health problems again, I keep having a shooting pain in the entire right leg, all the way from my toes to my knees. Then it get's tingly and I loose feeling in it for a few minutes. We can't really afford to go to the hospital/doctors for anything right now, because my insurance sucks pretty much because I am a student. SOOOO YEA....life is pretty stressful right now...

ughhhhhhhhhhhhh, but it;ll be okay, even great. Because I'm goign to have a wonderful husband who works so hard for me and loves me with all of his heart.

When I think about that I have to stop feeling bad for myself

Aww ... I am sorry Good for you keeping positive. ^_^ things will all work out some how.

I'll send positive thoughts your way! Glad to hear that you weren't seriously hurt in that accident.

I'm happy you are ok! Everything will work out in the end and the only thing that matters that is you and your FH will be married.

Sorry sweetheart.. its difficult..esp. when your wedding is so close, but remember, CHOOSING TO THINK POSITIVELY is the best way to go.. you are doing the right thing..it will all work out.. xoxo

Hey, we have the same date!!! But can you go to an attorney for the accident? You may be able to get more money that way. They normally offer free consulatations for Personal Injury. My mom has helped out a lot, but of course, there was still a bunch of stuff to pay for. So I hate to say this, we are making it through w/credit cards. My mom took over my car payment, and she is going to keep that, but I have a bunch of cc debt and I just bought a house...with the wedding in there too, it is a little difficult to pay for everything. But I am sure you can find a way, stay positive. It's the best thing for you to do!

As you said stay positive....it will work out! It always does!

If you have pain in your leg, and it started with the car accident, you don't have to worry about your personal health insurance. This would be covered under the medical portion of the car insurance. I'm currently in Physical therapy for a similar pain (back pain - degenerative disc disease with sciatic implications). I got a call the other day from a third party company on behalf of my insurance company trying to bill it out in relation to a car accident or work injury.

@ matt thats one of the (many) things my dad has. it sucks doesn't it? Hope your therapy goes well.

Im sooooo impressed with your positivity!! keep it up! i hope your health problems get better!!!

I'm sorry to hear this. Keep your head up and I'm sure everything will work out fine. As for the extra money for the wedding, is there any chance you can take a loan out from your 401k? I know at my job we can do that and we get the check within 3 days. Just an idea... not sure if thats an option for you. As for the accident, I'm glad you're ok and I would definitely try and get more money for your injuries. Good luck with everything!

@HisLilSassafras - Thanks. Lucky that the PT'ist I go to has a "hardship" program. I just reached my 20 visits covered by insurance in a calendar year. They'll allow me to continue at my co-pay amount!

I totally see how people get addicted to pain killers and muscle relaxers. Boy do they work, and knock you out so you can actually sleep! I'm only using those for the worst of my flare ups!

Thanks guys! I really appreciate all of the good wishes

as for like taking a loan out, or putting it on a credit card, or borrowing from anyone, that's not really an option for us. My fiance graduates college in 1 year, and are on a good track of not getting into any debt, and we only have a couple thousand in school loans, sooo I really don't want to ruin that.

I'm just going to keep working hard and we'll be able to do it!