Hair Poll - I'd love your opinion, ladies!

I go with looking like a spruced up version of yourself. I vote for short hair with the flower.

I completely agree with the idea that you should look like you, just a lil fancier.

I wanted my hair half up, it just looks better with my face. I had to grow it get that look. guess what I did about 2 weeks ago? yep..darker and shorter!

I'm sure you will look gorgeous no matter what length your hair is!

Hmmmmmmmmm, I've been trying to grow my hair out for awhile but it just doesn't wanna :-/

It's shoulder length so it's not super short but still. Do what you feel is right. Why'd ya want your hair long in the first place if you both like it short? Esp when there are clip-in hair extensions you can add if you should change your mind last minute. Just something to think about.

Thanks, mellojean!

I'm definitely still considering it, as I love the long-hair bridal look, but I'm starting to feel that short may just be more...practical. We're having a beach wedding, and wind won't mess up my short curls. FH is no help at all: he's been begging me to cut it since I showed him a picture of me with short hair!

My mom did what you're talking about for her wedding last month. She spent two years growing it out and it was as long as mine. Then she just hacked it all off. I thought she looked really pretty, personally. I don't see the problem with it, especially if you don't plan to attach a veil.

Ditto Mello - you'll be gorgeous no matter what. Plus it feel so good to chop it...

Damnit. The pic won't attach. Stupid ww. Last try.

Awww carmen, i wanna see. Bloody WW!

This is about my hair now - it's just not black anymore. I'm on the right, that's my sister on the left.

http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/photo.php?pid=1950994&op=7&o=global&view=global&subj=575956214&id=575956214

For me I wear shorter hair in the summer and longer in the winter. I like the ability to hid the back of my neck from the elements and I hate scarfs. How do you see yourself on your wedding day. I am growing mine out but plan to do a updo in some elegant twist but thats the style I see when I look at my dress. have not found a insperation pic yet I like. I think short pin curls would look cute with a flower kinda vintage 20's look. I actually am buying flower for my daughter to wear in her hair for my wedding since I not letting her wear it the way she wants too. If you decide you want it longer extentions always are there as a alternative to your natural hair. @Carmen WW would not let me post pics on another topic either.

I never cut my hair for 24 years and then I went and listened to someone and permed my hair and it all died and I cut it all off so it could grow. (Stupid!) but I miss my hair! I miss it so much. Then FH purposed and now I got 1 year to grow my hair back. I feel naked. lol I have used mane and tail and special shampoos vitamins. If it don't grow here I come extensions. I want it long so on my wedding day if I want it up, down, curled, ect I can have it the way I want it! if you want it short then go head girlfriend cut that hair lol

Shdvl: If my hair is long, it will be curly and loose. I naturally have really curly hair, and, while it doesn't always work for me, I know I want it curly on my wedding day. If it is long, I'd do a side pony-tail or a side bun (think Taylor Swift). So...right now it's kind of 50/50.

Jessica: My mom didn't let me cut my hair for years. She loved it long, and she'd trim it every now and then, but it was long enough for me to sit on for most of my life. First chance I got, I hacked it all off. Didn't even reach my shoulders. And I LOVED it. The only reason that I grew it out was because I gained about 40 pounds and it makes my face look fat now lol!!

HA! It worked! Behold, the mother. Sans long hair.

I love her hair, but I also wanted to comment on that pose. That's epic. Lol. She should blow this up and put it on the wall pointing at the door!! LMAO!

But seriously, it's difficult for me to imagine her with that much hair! She looks gorgeous with it short!

Stay long i would but short would look really cute on you. Um, Leave long with an updo for event then cut it all of in honor of your life together!!

Do yourself!!!! You want to look like yourself :-) Either way you will be beautiful!

You should do whatever is going to make you feel the most beautiful and make you happiest. I'm growing mine out, but if you feel better in a shorter hairstyle go for it.