Hi everyone! I might be slightly overreacting/sensitive about this....
We just sent out our invitations, and one of our guests told me super nonchalantly (in person) that she'd only be coming to our reception, and not to our ceremony. Our ceremony is going to be fairly short (45 minutes max), but she told me she wouldn't be able to make it to it because of work.
However, she told me she'd still have to get work off if she wanted to come to the reception anyway because she technically works all day on Sunday...Is it weird of me to feel a little frustrated about this? She could potentially take a couple of hours off to make it to our ceremony if she's going to take a half day off...
Maybe it's just the way she told me it in the first place....? She talked about it with me like it was no big deal, and it was just sort of...rude.
I know it's just one guest, and we're not even all that close. She's part of a friend group and I sort of pity-invited her (that was probably my bad, but I hate the idea of people feeling left out and she was one of the very few that I invited because I felt horrible for her), but now I just feel like she's not really all that invested in our actual marriage, seeing how she only wants to come to the reception. It makes me think that she's only in it for the free food and booze....
Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you! Sorry if I'm overthinking this.
