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Expert October 2018

First argument

Linda , on December 24, 2018 at 10:19 PM Posted in Married Life 0 9
2.5 months married. Almost 3 years together. Christmas Eve and we gave our first argument over a stupid difference of opinion on if the car my car had a bug or user issue. Now he’s tiling the bathroom and I am in bed alone. Kind of feel like a complete failure right now.

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Latest activity by Maggie, on December 26, 2018 at 1:26 PM
  • Katie
    VIP November 2019
    Katie ·
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    Don’t go to bed mad. Go talk it out!!
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
    Chandra ·
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    Silly fights are the worst. :/
    Give him a little space for now but definitely dont go to bed mad!!!
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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    I’ve actually never agreed with the whole “don’t go to bed angry” advice and this article explains exactly why. Take some deep breaths, get a good night’s rest, and reevaluate the situation in the morning. Everything is going to be ok...and it’s not going to take a Christmas miracle.

    https://www.thenest.com/content/dont-believe-what-they-say-go-to-bed-angry
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  • Allie
    Expert April 2019
    Allie ·
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    Eh. Things happen. I also don’t agree with ‘don’t go to bed angry’. J and i need some time to cool off after arguments and sometimes that means a night of sleep. That’s okay too.
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  • Tina
    Super August 2019
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    No need to feel bad. You will have your disagreements. Its a part of marriage. Glad it was over something small. Now you get to make up! Best part. Makes you closer. Yay! 😀
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  • L
    Expert October 2018
    Linda ·
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    That’s how we are. Space to calm down and everything is okay. It wasn’t even an argument that needed a resolution it was one that just didn’t need to happen and we needed to cool off
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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    My fiancé and I have had tons of arguments. They come and go and we forget about them. Hopefully you’re feeling better this morning!
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  • Future Mrs. Robinson1120
    Devoted November 2020
    Future Mrs. Robinson1120 ·
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    My fiance and I argued on Christmas morning as well give him space then when he comes around say I'm sorry
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  • Maggie
    Super February 2019
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    Eh take your time to cool off. We argue about stupid things all the time. We usually spend some time apart and then apologize for blowing things out of proportion or if one of us was clearly in the wrong we'll apologize for that. Definitely agree "don't go to bed angry" is not good advice. Forcing yourself to talk something out when you're still upset makes it worse.
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